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Public humiliation.... (11)

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11 Feb 10, 11:42 PM
someoneelse2010
UK(SE), 2 yrs

Mr_Frost wrote:
The thing about public humiliation is it involves the public....who probably didn't decide when they woke up that morning to be a part of your sexual fantasy.

I think theres a bit of a grey area between your right to dress/behave how you please vs the rights of others to not be involved when you do.

When you go into a store and ask to try on a dress as a guy or ask someone to apply makeup to you at one of their counters who are you trying to humiliate? You or the person at the store? You might welcome feeling uncomfortable in public but thats not taking into account the store person.

I quite agree. Placing BDSM values in a non-kink setting is generally inappropriate unless done carefully. There's a world of difference between taking a sub out plugged, or drinking something other than Lucozade from an opaque bottle, and the sort of thing which will have parents struggling to answer their children's queries.

"Mummy, mummy! Why is that man trying on makeup mummy?" "Well darling, he's probably doing it for a sexual kick."