Public humiliation.... (11)

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Tue 2 Feb 10, 8:57 PM
singleguy
UK, 4 mths I've always wanted to be taken into a woman's clothes shop and be made to try on a dress or skirt!
Also, go to a make-up counter of a department store and have the member of staff put make-up on me.
What girly things have you Dommes made a male sub do openly in public?

2 Feb 10, 9:11 PM
boneo_boy
UK(LN), 14 mths
Im a tv sub so thats not a challenge or humiliation but I found body shop ok and who will see you in a dressing room lol

8 Feb 10, 5:22 AM
trussed_me
UK(NW), 3 yrs

I'm not sure you'd be welcomed in some high street chain stores but if you can get a Domme to take you to LAM or LFF and "make you" try on some clothes at the stalls (with a view to buying so you're not annoying the stallholders by just wasting their time) I'm sure nobody would bat an eyelid.

8 Feb 10, 5:56 AM
Mr_Frost
UK(PL), 16 mths
The thing about public humiliation is it involves the public....who probably didn't decide when they woke up that morning to be a part of your sexual fantasy.
I think theres a bit of a grey area between your right to dress/behave how you please vs the rights of others to not be involved when you do.
When you go into a store and ask to try on a dress as a guy or ask someone to apply makeup to you at one of their counters who are you trying to humiliate? You or the person at the store? You might welcome feeling uncomfortable in public but thats not taking into account the store person.
There should be nothing wrong with wanting to wear a dress as a male its just an item of clothing but obviously there is, because some people who do it feel humiliated so something is going on there.
I suppose asking the store clerk gives them the opportunity to say no but in a customer service environment thats not always something you feel you can say.

Edited 8 Feb 10, 6:08 AM by Mr_Frost

8 Feb 10, 7:48 AM
menialmagg
UK(NW), 5 yrs I have been sent to buy underwear and make-up and get some smiles from female assistants, I found it exhilharating...

8 Feb 10, 8:04 AM
paulaDT
UK, 6 yrs
Y!
i have on a number of occasions been shopping with a Mistress, and it was blatently obvious that the clothes i was buying were not for Her!!! On one occasion was wearing femme undies, including stockings and male over clothes and was made to try a pair of heels on in a shop!!

8 Feb 10, 9:45 AM
SheilaBlyge
UK, 22 mths
I was a trader at BBB for quite a while and fitted many a guy for dresses, skirts, tops, corsets. Generally lots of fun, and can be a challenge to get good fitting stuff that suits them. It's actually nice to work with people who actually want to look good and care about the clothing though, rather than someone who just wants to be put in a dress.
In the high street, yes, I think I echo the point about other people's sensitivity. Often someone's reaction to other people's humiliation is embarrassment or humiliation themselves, I know that is true for me.
There are ways around that... for example making a joke of it and involving any staff, even using the old 'fancy dress party' as a cover story. As long as the dynamic is known between you and the Domme, no-one else has to know that, even if they suspect. After all, the 'humiliation' is only how someone feels about themselves... one man's humilation is another man's 'shameless'.

8 Feb 10, 11:13 AM
iaNIKKI
UK(LE), 11 mths
Always a difficult one I find...you have to be careful who you actually end up humiliating. My sub loves and hates (in equal measure) to be humiliated in public. Sometimes it's just the tone or attitude I use that does the job. Often if he's referred to as my boyfriend/husband I correct them and tell them "absolutely not..he's staff.!!!) That does it for him usually...LOL
Mistress Nikki

8 Feb 10, 1:55 PM
Nina_Jay
UK(TA), 12 mths
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Being a TV I go into shops and buy womens clothes but except for shoes never try any on in the shops. Most sales assistants fine with men buying womens clothes and even trying it on if you've come in as a woman.
Afterall a sale is a sale right?
So not sure you would humiliate anyone but yourself in many places

Edited 8 Feb 10, 1:57 PM by Nina_Jay

8 Feb 10, 1:58 PM
tryanewsub
UK(YO), 4 yrs
Y! Humiliation does not have to be about doing girly things in public.
The availability of webcams means that one can often be humilaited by being seen. Such as choose to watch are obviuously volunteers which gets ovee the non-consensual participation poin.
John
John

8 Feb 10, 2:23 PM
Neophites_jewel
UK(SW), 22 mths

Mr_Frost wrote:
I think theres a bit of a grey area between your right to dress/behave how you please vs the rights of others to not be involved when you do.
When you go into a store and ask to try on a dress as a guy or ask someone to apply makeup to you at one of their counters who are you trying to humiliate? You or the person at the store? You might welcome feeling uncomfortable in public but thats not taking into account the store person.

Hmmm...i take your point, but i don't know if i agree.
i was once one of those members of the public when i worked in a place that did ear piercing at the mall when i was younger (back in the pre-kink day), and a tv came in looking to get an ear piercing done. i will admit i was slightly caught off-guard, but no more so than dealing with any other person for whom protocol wasn't covered in retail 101. It was pretty obvious that the customer wasn't entirely comfortable with the situation so i tried to be as helpful as possible, and we both had a bit of a laugh about the odd situation. If anything, it brightened up my day!
Now, i do make allowances for the fact that this was in the States (we DID invent customer service, after all ), and maybe i was an exception to the rule, but i think most vanilla salespeople would just file it away under 'amusing experience at work' and leave it at that.

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." - Abraham Lincoln

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