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2 Feb 10, 7:29 PM
PrinceCaspian
UK(SE), 6 yrs

Miss_Despotic wrote:

yoda_dog wrote:
Anyone who could do this to me couldn't possibly respect me

That's not necessarily true. J likes to indulge in this sort of thing quite often and I don't for one second think he doesn't respect me

Indeed.

I would never indulge in this kind of interaction were there not a deep seated respect present.

"Let us all remember right here and now what a woman is to a man!" "Get on your knees!" Ranse Burgess: Fire Fly

2 Feb 10, 11:04 PM
kitiara
UK(WV), 8 yrs

yoda_dog wrote:
Belittling my self esteem in this way would simply make me recoil in horror. Anyone who could do this to me couldn't possibly respect me, and therefore doesn't deserve to be with me.

Each to their own, this ain't for me.

I agree, I couldn't be with anyone who made me feel bad about myself.

But, I am not really into humiliation and would never want to feel degraded.

Nice things come in small packages...but so does poison!

3 Feb 10, 3:36 AM
yoda_dog
UK(HP), 6 yrs

Miss_Despotic wrote:

yoda_dog wrote:
Anyone who could do this to me couldn't possibly respect me

That's not necessarily true. J likes to indulge in this sort of thing quite often and I don't for one second think he doesn't respect me

I meant it more from a personal perspective, rather than any judgement on anyone else. They wouldn't respect me because it would be damaging *to me*.

"Bottom line: it's couples who are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is they don't let it take them down. One of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship every time."