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| Fri 29 Jan 10, 5:52 PM PrinceCaspian UK(SE), 6 yrs |
Have been thinking about this lately and am looking for feedback from people who have participated in these either from the top or the bottom. (I don't mean just some restraint and sporadic play over 24hrs, more sustained and intense and perhaps harsh or brutal) I'm not looking for tips or anything more accounts of your emotional states before during and after and how rewarding it was. ps. (I would be interested in the contrast between those who used a roleplay dynamic compared to those who simply kept their pre-existing roles) "Let us all remember right here and now what a woman is to a man!" "Get on your knees!" Ranse Burgess: Fire Fly | |
| 30 Jan 10, 5:04 PM TheKey UK(N), 4 yrs |
Did some members of the Leather Family participate in a week-long incarceration scene that they blogged about and webcammed not too long ago? Check out @The_Art_Forum | |
| 30 Jan 10, 5:12 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
We have roleplayed with a sub for a weekend, so that they were under control the whole time, clothes chosen, caged at times, fed by us, restrained at night and not when in use etc. Lots of fun, but can be tiring! Not sure what else to say about it really.... feel free to ask questions if interested. “If you find it hard to laugh at yourself, I would be happy to do it for you.” | |
| 30 Jan 10, 6:58 PM will_ingtoplease UK(LN), 3 yrs |
The above post sounds like an amazing experience ,
what a way to spend a day or 2,
sure it would be tiring but, if both were having fun , for different reasons, WOW, probally would not sleep for a week thinking about all the magical things that were done | |
| 30 Jan 10, 7:13 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
There are times at which, as a sub, I've been at the point of feeling like I can't take anymore and I've been thinking "it must end soon surely" but then I'm high for days afterwards so although it can be draining at the time, it is well worth it and at the times when it's not draining, everything can feel very real in the most beautiful way so a very long scene is a great way to get deeper into the whole sense of power exchange It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | |
| 30 Jan 10, 7:22 PM Sissy_Play_Thing UK(B), 3 yrs |
On occasion I've done housework, cooking, run errands, carried out any tasks that needed doing, and in general be a gofer for Mistress over a 24-36 hour period. When not required it was usually a case of kneeling or standing in a corner – which becomes quite demanding after a while when start to lose track of time and you're being ignored. Didn't involve dressing up or session activity as such, it was really more a domestic servant/slave role. In some ways quite low-level, nevertheless a surprisingly intense experience. I suspect because I never knew what was coming next, or when. | |
| 31 Jan 10, 12:42 AM semper_fidelis1 UK(RG), 2 yrs |
Not yet but planed very soon :P....I hope | |
| 31 Jan 10, 1:07 AM Flouncer 2 yrs |
I am not sure about this one. lol | |
| 31 Jan 10, 1:12 AM x_zero_x UK(DD), 10 yrs |
Definately something i'd love to try!
Your day has finally come - | |
| 3 Feb 10, 11:58 AM Cassius UK, 3 yrs |
Whenever I see my sub it is generally 24 hours or more, continuously in bed,with vanilla and bdsm pastimes,feeding,drinking,talking and sleeping.I do not "use" her ; that term in my mind is slave-related. We have decided not yet to consider a dynamic other than that which comes naturally to us,in Ds Mf,as we are concerned that for example a slavery situation,even if set up just for a scene, to explore, might have an effect on the generality of that which we find so exquisite now. Maybe one day......but not yet. Practise senseless acts of beauty. Edited 3 Feb 10, 12:03 PM by Cassius | |
| 3 Feb 10, 1:29 PM Fitznicely UK(B), 2 yrs |
Would be very tiring but as others have said, very rewarding. I can see us doing this if we could arrange adequate childcare, switch all the phones off and....buy a big cage, I think...Hmmmmmmmmmm You know they say it's always the quiet ones you have to watch? That's me. |