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| 11 Feb 10, 10:13 PM someoneelse2010 UK(SE), 2 yrs |
I think it depends on how you view limits. For some subs, especially with pain or anal play, they're rather like weight training - start low, and then increase what you can take. It might be low intensity spanking, but high repetition, or it could be heavy with low repetition - six of the best with a cane. Equally, there are plenty of people who know what they like, and see no reason to go beyond it, just as I don't try and drive a regular journey quicker each time. |