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Self bondage.... (25)

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29 Jan 10, 1:15 PM
Hislilpuppy
9 yrs

Reading your comments has made me feel more comfortable about my own experiences.For many years I "went solo", including self-flagellation,for all the reasons given by you & others here.It was only 18 months ago I discovered IC and to my relief & happiness found lots of lovely people into bondade / BDSM.BUT as I have subsequently discovered there is nothing else quite like someone tying YOU up & flogging you!!

oh thats so good ! i am glad you feel more supported and comfortable about what you do ! i self flagelate and cane , crop ....anything really to get thew sensation and fuel my fantasy in spinning a imaginary scene., smiles

submission is permission to be yourself without judgment

Edited 13 Feb 10, 11:18 PM by Hislilpuppy

29 Jan 10, 1:20 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs

Janus_x wrote:

Many bondage experts here claim to be self taught. Perhaps this explains it

I think if people want to learn how to get cinches just riiiight, that sort of thing, practicing on your own ankles, knees and wot not is a great idea. Notice how a big lump of rope between yer ankles hurts?

I started slightly differently, learning how to rig race boats from the age of 5. Must have been a slow starter, didn't start rigging girls till I was almost 8!

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29 Jan 10, 4:01 PM
Hedwig
UK(E), 4 yrs

janglos wrote:
the trick is to always leave yourself a way out so that you don't get stuck.

I never thought of that!

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29 Jan 10, 7:25 PM
geoff917
UK(CO), 3 yrs

geoff917 wrote:

flirtycrazykinky wrote:
well i have done solo bondage since i was 13 years old.

Starting with barbie being kidnapped or tied up , drawing pictures and finally ...trying it out

I started with belts and silk scarves at 13 obviously however now i have proper bdsm equipment .

I am in a relationship and i still do solo bondage solo s/m ..it is my maturbation...yours might be enough to simply self pleasure..its not enough for me ...

With solo bondage i have been able to try out things i have fantasized about such as wearing a hood ( took years until recently to actually do this with someone ) , wearing gags of all kinds really big ones , inflatable ones , (again something i have only recently been able to enjoy with someone else ...even nipple or genital torture...the things i do to myself is just evil and this is really only something i have been exploring with someone slowly ...what i do to myself ..i cant seem to handle another one doing to me ...

its not just about the bondage ....i tried the whole freezing a key in water... boring and frustrating ..fell asleep in the end waiting lol

When i do solo bondage i imagine someone else is doing it to me ...always who i am with because it gets me horny ...i imagine them talking to me , chastising me for doing something wrong..and making me pay for it with more pain ...

I can describe what i do usual scene ....i see something on a website.. mostly insex and get turned on seeing say a evil gag ...I begin with sometimes dressing up ...say in full rubber or maybe naked ...i do heavy breat bondage till they are really tight ...gags are usual complicated...so ..maybe 2 inch ring gag with penis inflatable gag , a hood in rubber , leather , posture collar , i use clamps on my nipples , weights and connect them to clamps on my labia ...inflatable or vibrating plug , vibrator on my clit ...crotch rope holding all the toys in ...i then will tie my hands together with a simple knot to easily get out ...and will either lay down or kneel up ...as the feeling builds i will add more pain ..unfastening my hands (mostly slip out easily) and apply more clamps tom my breasts ...cane my breasts or add more weight ...until i cum !!

so you see for me its sexual..its not just about being tied, its the sm its the fetish , its the tease and its the fantasy ....

as i said i am in a relationship...but that would never stop me masturbating.. would bein in a relationship stop you???

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Reading your comments has made me feel more comfortable about my own experiences.For many years I "went solo", including self-flagellation,for all the reasons given by you & others here.It was only 18 months ago I discovered IC and to my relief & happiness found lots of lovely people into bondage / BDSM.BUT as I have subsequently discovered there is nothing else quite like someone tying YOU up & flogging you!!

Thanks for your kind words, its nice to know someone who understands....

"In order to finish first, you must first finish".....Roger Penske

29 Jan 10, 11:12 PM
angellover
UK(CM), 3 yrs

silklover2 wrote:
I do self-bondage, mainly because of a lack of someone to tie me up. I don't use locks etc, but prefer rope or silk scarves. For me it's not so much an attempt to bind myself so it's inescapable (which obviously doesn't work for self-bondage), but more just to have the experience of feeling restrained, which I enjoy very much.

However, whenever an opportunity presents itself, I much prefer being tied up by someone else!

I self rope for the same kinda reasons.... the need to feel the rope, the restraint it gives and the twichting off the foo foo.... I hog tie from feet up to just over my boobs and leave my arms free but then I put my hands through a self tight rope but I always have something hand to cut myself free with, just in case the fire alarm goes off.

The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind

Edited 29 Jan 10, 11:14 PM by angellover