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| 23 Jan 10, 4:33 PM Corwin UK(L), 10 yrs |
Or maybe it's just people having a fuck and enjoying it. "I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss of her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it. One." - Seth (City of Angels) | |
| 23 Jan 10, 4:36 PM Ethics_Gradient UK(N), 5 yrs |
Not unless the entire non-virgin population is submissive.... And all men kill the thing they love, By all let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword! | |
| 23 Jan 10, 4:39 PM Ariane 7 yrs |
No. Sex requires two people. Hopefully both participate. Do you think they're both submissive?
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| 24 Jan 10, 1:53 AM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
guess it would depend on the persons view on sex and possibly submission. I think sex should only happen with love I have submitted without love before and there's been no sex. It hasn't made me feel that I'm giving any less. But then again I suppose that to "allow someone to have sex with me" would be a pretty big deal and certainly part of a bigger picture, possibly including an immense level of submission to someone in a relationship based context It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | |
| 24 Jan 10, 6:46 PM Diablos_patience UK, 5 yrs |
Ya'see now i know ive got this submission malarky all bleedin' wrong ..... i dont allow, he just takes... the Bastard.
~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~ | |
| 24 Jan 10, 6:51 PM Kitty_with_Claws UK, 3 yrs |
More like the ultimate reward, dearie
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| 24 Jan 10, 7:01 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs |
Why do you ask? Are you having trouble getting someone to "submit" to you, in that way? "Truth is stranger than fiction." | |
| 24 Jan 10, 7:58 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
I'm very submissive and sex has always felt like a submissive act to me but most sex is in the head and if your head is in the right place then it works and feels submissive. If not you're just thinking about your shopping list and hoping it will be over soon in which case it's not a very sub thing at all. | |
| 24 Jan 10, 8:03 PM Lady_Susan UK, 5 yrs |
So to summarise the responses, the answer would appear to be, "Yes, if you want it to be like that, otherwise no." Anyone suprised? When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you | |
| 24 Jan 10, 8:12 PM Kitty_with_Claws UK, 3 yrs |
Not at all
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