Posted by kesriel on Thu 14 Jan 10, 9:17 AM to kesriel's blog.
may be "diamonds".......but today was definitely a "frozen dog-poo" day!!!....
keeping my head down and just working away....hoping that the Clients foul mood doesn't get directed my way.....
i know that i have been told that i have strength i do not know of....that i am stronger than i believe......but sometimes that strength feels so terribly brittle and fragile......and i just feel that if She decides to yell at me one more time i'm going to break down and cry.....
right.....
deep breath....
another cup of tea....
onwards....ever onwards....my brave and fearless IC Friends....
together W/we are so very VERY much stronger than the mere sum of our parts....
| 14 Jan 10, 9:25 AM Avada_Kedavra UK, 7 yrs  |
some days, people can reduce me to tears with a mere word.. Other days I feel like I could take on the world. http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/westlondonmunch/ | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 9:29 AM Relaxed_and_Chaotic UK(SE), 3 yrs  |
Ah, the joyeous rollercoaster that is life.... x "There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master." D. H. Lawrence | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 9:30 AM Jezzebelle UK, 10 yrs |
If she yells at you again tell her she pays you to do a job not for you to be her whipping girl for all the other problems in her life! http://www.flickr.com/photos/jezzebelle/ | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 9:43 AM aka_kelly UK(YO), 2 yrs |
Some days are everlasting horrible curl up and die days, thankfully most of us get a lot more of the 'oh happy days' days. Hope your day turns on it's head and gets better  Sometimes i'm kelly, sometimes i'm not, sometimes the difference is hard to spot! | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 10:28 AM dominalush UK(RG), 5 yrs  |
to give pain is my pleasure...... | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 11:26 AM The_Colonel_Whatwhat 3 yrs |
I just rely on fluke I came, I saw, I concurred | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 2:21 PM Relaxed_and_Chaotic UK(SE), 3 yrs |
Oi woman! Get your arse to the munch tonight and i promise you the world will look like a much better place!! g xx "There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master." D. H. Lawrence | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 2:54 PM Sunhillow 7 yrs |
She has no right to yell at you and putting up with it just sends the message that her behaviour is acceptable. Try telling her that it's not acceptable and that you will speak to her when she can refrain from yelling.
Go on... I dare you All the best kes, L x
~ If you must pick the lesser of two evils; choose the one you've never tried before. ~ | ||
| 14 Jan 10, 3:34 PM kesriel 7 yrs |
You win....i didn't dare....but You knew i wouldn't....
never mind....breathing space....She had a meeting to attend at 3pm so it's all peaceful on the Western Front for now....
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| 14 Jan 10, 11:53 PM yoda_dog UK(HP), 6 yrs |
This!
Be firm but polite, and ask that she speak to you rather than shout. You'll be shitting yourself inside, but keep calm on the outside and you'll be fine You *can* do it! "Bottom line: it's couples who are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is they don't let it take them down. One of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship every time." |
