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| 12 Jan 10, 12:24 PM hertyler UK(TS), 3 yrs   |
seems that the ankles are the common one doesnt it? interesting thought there might have been some more extreme situations. Maybe they are more for the benefit of film rather thann reality. But they dont actually sleep do they? its more just for the show. Open to speaking | |
| 12 Jan 10, 12:31 PM emma_tv_edinburgh UK(EH), 4 yrs |
Always used cuffs, rather than ropes. Wrists behind my back, with a long chain to ankle cuffs is more common. Occasionally used a chain from the front of a collar to cuffs, and then a long chain from wrist to ankles. | |
| 12 Jan 10, 1:32 PM TaintedDesire UK(YO), 7 yrs |
I used to enjoy being tied/restricted to the bed, my first M used to have me ask every night for permission to get into bed, I always used to have to sleep naked, wearing just my wrist and ankle cuffs, then he used to attach my wrist cuffs to a bit of chain which was attached to the headboard. Sometimes he would add to this a loose chain runing from cuffs to my ankles. I could move about easily, free myself if an emergency arised, (or I simply needed the toilet, he was a bugger to wake, lol). Then my D after him, kept a long piece of chain attached to my bed, which he used to attach to my collar when he used to stay over, twas bloody cold on bare skin when I tossed and turned in the night. lol. I don't do well with being tied to the bed unable to move freely, I cramp easily, and find it almost impossible to drop off to sleep. td "A masochist walked up to a sadist, and said 'Hurt me'. The sadist said 'No' and walked away." Edited 12 Jan 10, 1:34 PM by TaintedDesire | |
| 12 Jan 10, 1:44 PM Jays_wench UK(CO), 3 yrs |
cuffed one ankle and chained to the bed, cuff is velcro due to having children that i may need to attend to in the night.
can't sleep without it i just find it very reasurring to be chained to the bed. Romance lies in ruin let debauchery reign, let it rain. kneels by His feet. | |
| 12 Jan 10, 1:48 PM purple_mog UK(YO), 2 yrs |
<grins> Usual bedtime attire includes corset (always), wrist and ankle cuffs (always), gag (sometimes), collar (sometimes), special occasions a chain running from bound ankles to back of the collar. Oh, and as of last night, hooded too <drifts off again> All when sleeping with my boy, if on my own then corset, wrist and ankle cuffs for definite. There's something really lovely about a bedtime binding ritual...and all of these options allow for plenty of snuggling and being held. That which yields, is not always weak. — Jacqueline Carey (Kushiel's Dart) | |
| 12 Jan 10, 2:12 PM subbietrouble 2 yrs |
I have a kitten collar that goes on my wrist and a matching leash which is scured to the bed, and I have to ask permission to unclip the leash every morning. We did try locking the cuff on, which I liked, but the lock was very fiddly and long winded to get on and off so we stopped doing it after a bit. I am allowed to get up to go to the loo if I need to, but I generally try not to unless I can't help it. I'd echo what others have said about it feeling very secure and comforting - I would feel lost going to sleep without it now, how would I know what position to sleep in, or what side of the bed to lie on?! I guess you get very used to the restaint of it. trouble xxx | |
| 12 Jan 10, 2:19 PM MamaGoth UK(BN), 3 yrs |
I cuff and chain the boi (hands above head, feet together and to the bed frame) especially when we have been out socialising and all he wants to do is sleep so it gives him something to resit and then endure  I like his rattles and I usually release him from the frame in the middle of the night so he can do his morning ablutions.
I'm hoping that the sleeping bag should insulate some of the clanking as he can be a little inconsiderate when he turns during the night
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| 12 Jan 10, 3:10 PM anncat UK(ST), 7 yrs |
If i slept alone i would attach a chain to my collar to the head of the bed. This was mainly a symbolic gesture as I perfectly capable of releasing myself in an instant. If my Master slept with me, then it could be anything from full tight corset and arms bound, or just ankle and wrist cuffs attached to each other. I never slept well bound, and some nights I wouldn't sleep at all... but I prefered to be bound lying next to him in bed, than on the floor... which 50% of the time was where I ended up. | |
| 12 Jan 10, 3:14 PM Dominion UK(BS), 8 yrs |
I purchased a special harness that fits under the bed, and has wrist and ankle ties. It fits a genuine king size bed too LOL There are various positions that can be used, as obviously spreadeagled would not let me have much room for sleep
Last slave used to almost automatically raise her wrists when she went to bed, so they could be tied in place
Not used it much, since my last slave left, but its in place always,
I do have many other restraints, but like that one the best Next best, 40 ft chain, round the neck padlocked, and round part of the house and also padlocked, not as safe LOL but then thats also part of the fun Edited 12 Jan 10, 3:16 PM by Dominion | |
| 12 Jan 10, 5:02 PM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs       |
LOL indeed. mia, x "Passion should believe itself irresistible. It should forget civility and consideration and all the other curses of a refined nature. Above all, it should never ask for leave where there is a right of way." |
and disrupts my slumbers
