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| Tue 12 Jan 10, 10:22 AM hertyler UK(TS), 3 yrs   |
Interested to know what others do. What are some of the more common ties for a submissive when they are in bed to sleep for the night? Interested to hear from Dominanats and submissives. I know not everyone does it for safety reasons. But I know there will be people out there who do include this in their relationship. Kind regards Tyler xxx PS stay safe. Open to speaking | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 10:26 AM dickrigger UK(CB), 9 yrs |
Hands above head or in front, legs together. However in my view it is ESSENTIAL that someone sleeps alongside the tied person so that they can be wakened should the tied person want out. | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 10:50 AM hertyler UK(TS), 3 yrs |
I agree that that is a must. I wounder is there are ones that people use that completely immobilizes the slave or submissive Open to speaking | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 11:31 AM dangerousdonkey 2 yrs |
My Dom often ties me at night. This can be by the ankle to the bed or sometimes around my neck. I have a lockable steel collar which i wear and the rope is tied to that and to the bed. I have also been tied hobble or chained like that with long chains between my ankles and my wrists. You do need to be able to move around hence the long chains. I would agree someone has to sleep with you although I have slept alone in just an ankle tie, but my Dom is next door. I think with being tied at night the Dom/me has to accept that he/she may be woken. | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 11:34 AM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs       |
I like to be cuddled, so her hands are usually free (though she often wears her cuffs). Her ankle cuffs are often clipped together but she is currently told she can remove the clip (not the cuffs) at any time, if it becomes uncomfortable. I reckon she'll eventually sleep through and it will become habit to be so constrained. Patience is bitter - but its fruit is sweet. | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 11:34 AM sadomasokisti IS, 2 yrs |
I have spent few nights hooded and in a straight jacket inside a small cage. | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 11:37 AM Relaxed_and_Chaotic UK(SE), 3 yrs |
When Master is not here at night i am tethered by an ankle cuff and rope to the end of the bed. i must point out here that i can easily and quickly undo it should the kids need me and that the rope is long enough to move around easily. i guess it is more of a symbolic thing really, anything else would not be safe. However, i do sleep better with it than without. When Master is here, He prefers me untethered at night...
"There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master." D. H. Lawrence | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 11:43 AM Mr_Worm UK(BN), 6 yrs    |
was that bed & breakfast at Sparksies ? she does spoil her guests | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 11:48 AM Kobal1 UK(CM), 2 yrs £  |
My slave sleeps with ankles cuffed and chained to bottom of bed.. Hands are only restrained when she's being punished  Don't torture yourself . . . that is my job | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 12:08 PM sadomasokisti IS, 2 yrs |
She does indeed! | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 12:16 PM inappropriate  UK(CF), 3 yrs |
I adore having my ankles tied to sleep; if I'm stressed or haven't been sleeping too well it makes me sleep much better. Unfortunately, in past relationships, it's been more of an occasional treat than a common occurrence. Come to the Cardiff fish and chips munch |
