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| 26 Jan 10, 8:26 PM AngelDomme UK(TA), 7 yrs £ |
Yep im one of those who slips her slipperson and i have been known not to get dressed at all and still be in my pj's. A Domme is Dominate no matter what she wears and i think its only for Pro work and clubs do i 'look the part' you either got it or not, image isnt everything
Take care A/all look forward to meeting those of you who have my attention soon. Mistress Angel | |
| 26 Jan 10, 8:35 PM AngelDomme UK(TA), 7 yrs £ |
Yep im one of those who slips her slipperson and i have been known not to get dressed at all and still be in my pj's. A Domme is Dominate no matter what she wears and i think its only for Pro work and clubs do i 'look the part' you either got it or not, image isnt everything
Take care A/all look forward to meeting those of you who have my attention soon. Mistress Angel | |
| 26 Jan 10, 9:03 PM Mistress_Maud 3 yrs |
^precisely why I never wear uncomfortable shoes, whether i'm playing or not. function comes before form for me. | |
| 18 Feb 10, 10:23 PM MamaGoth UK(BN), 3 yrs   |
so where do I buy the spankiest pink fluffiest slippers to spank a boy for putting a thread like this up? | |
| 19 Feb 10, 8:13 AM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
I have often laughed about this subject with my subs over the years. I have indeed dommed wearing extremely fluffy slippers and just jeans and t-shirt. Some of those sessions have even been professional ones and no sub has ever complained. Why? Well, I suppose I personally don't relate to or like the stereotypical portrayal of the female dominant aesthetic, all rubber and high heels, so I don't buy into it. I don't pretend, I just say outright I don't wear fetish clothes and very high heels and that is that. There is no pretence or inauthenticity. People know what they get with me and that is that. It was in the beginning a risky strategy as I had no idea whether a non fetish wearing Domme would ever be accepted in the bdsm lifestyle, let alone the professional domination world. As it turned out, it was fine. There is room for difference and variety and always room for those who are prepared to tell a difficult truth. I am not saying all fetish wearing Dommes are fakes or just living up to a male fantasy, some of my dear Domme friends love their rubber and leather clothes and look great in it too. That is their authenticity and many can play during a two hour session in high heels very easily, so do not need or wish to remove their shoes. I am more delicate soul (or sole) and therefore wear shoes which I am able to be comfortable in, sometimes that is three inch court shoes but other times it is fluffy slippers.
24/7 subs and slaves can and do live similar lives, it is only the concept of 'ownership' which separates them. | |
| 20 Feb 10, 3:09 AM uniquemoon UK, 10 yrs |
I keep it very much like Ms_Valentine. After all, I want to be able to move and whirl around like I please and have nothing to constrict Me.
If I want to dress to impress I do. On other days it is bare feet and cotton for Me! And slipping off the highheels.. Donīt We do it all? ..I wonder were I put My furry Taz slippers.... |
