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| 19 Mar 10, 6:54 PM Empress_Martine UK(HA), 2 yrs £        |
Just beware there are a few individuals, no names, who will be looking to have arguments with people.Just ignore them and you don't have to offer sexual services.I certainly do not as a dominate so I don't think you should have to either. | |
| 22 Mar 10, 9:42 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
Although I have a couple of places to work from I would love to hear from anyone else in the south west Bristol area that has dungeons I could hire on an hourly basis too. If you know of anywhere or have a place please send me a memo Edited 24 Mar 10, 9:29 AM by Nina_Jay | |
| 24 Mar 10, 11:43 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
Anyone got any idea on how to stop people booking me then pulling out at the last minute. Should I get some sort of deposit? | |
| 25 Mar 10, 8:58 AM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 3 yrs £ |
I'm afraid that goe's with the job, at least they let you know, it's the "no shows" that bug me. As far as deposits are concerned, I am not shure how you can do that without meeting them in advance or seting up something like a paypal account but most clients don't want any paper record of their activities. | |
| 25 Mar 10, 7:54 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
Thinking of setting up a paypal account as today I wasted a whole day sat around the club as Nina. I started off with up to five clients coming and none turned up. One who left his number wouldn't answer my calls or my texts as to why he hadn't turned up when he seemed so into booking a session with me on the phone a few days ago.
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| 25 Mar 10, 7:59 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
Not sure if you know but Paypal don't support adult services. If they et wind of you they will freeze your account. Don't ever contact the client. It wastes your time and money and some of them get off on it. You need to develop your timewaster radar and have a good think about setting up some filters (questionnaires, application forms, detailed emails) to sort the wheat from the chaff. This may help too... http://www.professionaldomination.co.uk/upload/s...
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |
| 25 Mar 10, 8:34 PM Chelsea_Vamp UK(WC), 6 yrs £ |
I save the numbers of timewasters on my mobiles so I dont get caught a second time. You will get used to who's likely to be a timewaster by the tone of voice, questions they ask etc. Also, I never take bookings from withheld numbers. Reb
I am not a 'beanpole with tits' I'm an hourglass with not enough sand.... | |
| 25 Mar 10, 8:39 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
Funny while at the club I was reading a magazine article that had a list like that on about different types of time wasters. I've had loads of different ones this week on the phone or bounching e-mails about. If they had all turned into bookings I would have had a busy week instead none of them did! I had Mr no show today and Mr cancel yesterday(booked me and then changed his mind this morning by text) as well as Mr chat yesterday who kept me on the phone ages and still didn't book and of course Mr Confirms who insisted he was coming today and even texted me last night to tell me what to wear. Today he didn't turn up and I couldn't get hold of him. I even sent him a text message about wasting peoples time which I guess he had a good laugh about. Oh hang on I had a Mr Freebie Hunter this week and more than one Mr Special asking me what I did even though all the details are on my site. I also had a couple of Mr Macdonalds asking if they could see me now. And i had one not on the list a Mr what's in it for me!!!
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| 25 Mar 10, 9:01 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
I too don't answer calls from withheld numbers. BTW if someone called Matt rings from this number wanting too book you tell him where to go 07527176960. I think I'm in the wrong business because everyone looks at my pics and just rings me up for a quick shag. When I explain what I do they often seem confussed
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| 25 Mar 10, 9:04 PM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 3 yrs £ |
You say one left a number? that meens 4 were on withheld numbers? If I have learnt anything from being a "working girl" it is never take a booking from a withheld number they very rarely turn up. Dont worry Nina, you are on a sharp learning curve and you soon will get the hang of it I have sent you a P.M. Think about it.......... Love Katie. x |
