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| 12 Jan 10, 12:07 AM Italia_Vamp IT, 6 yrs £ |
If you're going to quote me, kindly quote me correctly. This is what I said;
Si hoc legere scis, nimis eruditionis habes | |
| 12 Jan 10, 12:21 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
Sorry it seems serena had removed her comment and is now only shown in your quote hence it made me think you had wrote it. Oh I just noticed it's my birthday!!! Oh no I'm 28!!! Edited 12 Jan 10, 12:22 AM by Nina_Jay | |
| 12 Jan 10, 12:26 AM Italia_Vamp IT, 6 yrs £ |
Apology accepted. Reb
Si hoc legere scis, nimis eruditionis habes | |
| 12 Jan 10, 1:06 AM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
Hi Nina, was great meeting you at St Trinians film, glad you took my advice and posted a thread. I threw Nina 3 memo's worth of tips, and thanks Katie as I said to Nina that you would reply as you always come across as very helpful. The main thing that Nina has on her side as she's extremely convincing as a girl, a Billie Piper/Belle De Jour lookalike, and a TV pro sub charges less than a female and cash strapped guys will be happy to use her, plua others who want something different. I have one client who will mainly only use a TS pro sub as he doesn't want a girlie girl and the one he uses is very masculine so it's a very broad market out there. Maybe I am wrong and she won't get any business but she only needs 1 or 2 sessions a week to provide a nice supplement to a day job. Plus you'll get a lot of your spanking kicks that you then won't have to seek out or pay for. The usual safety precautions and finding a venue etc are covered in my memos and previous posts on the subject. And no you don't need to offer sexual services but some tips on my memo. Good luck Nina hun. Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! | |
| 12 Jan 10, 5:54 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
Thanks for posting that Tara it's nice that someone who is a pro sub has been so helpful too me and it's also nice having someone post who has also met me. I will take both your advice and katie's on board as you've both been great too me. If I fail and get no interest some people will have been proved right but it wont be through a lack of trying on my part. Edited 15 Jan 10, 10:39 AM by Nina_Jay | |
| 6 Feb 10, 1:08 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
Things are still going ok and everyone I've met and told what I'm doing have been pretty surportive. Except Alan at Wild Passions who's worried for my safety! Bless him. Anyway now have use of a couple of venues on a commission basis which should make things safer but have turned people down who want me to go to their houses already as not sure this is wise?
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| 6 Feb 10, 1:16 PM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £ |
Goodluck Nina Jay, Tara actually emailed Me, your website.
Very impressive " The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. Resist it
and your soul grows sick with longing, for the things it has forbidden
itself"
Oscar Wilde | |
| 6 Feb 10, 8:02 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
That was nice of Tara and thank you. The website is my old personal one but in the next few weeks I should have my all new singing and dancing pro sub one up. It's funny quite often I get a negative feedback on forums but when I meet people in real everyone seems much more helpful and positve and always seem to think I'll do ok. Guess that's partly why Tara has been so supportive Edited 9 Feb 10, 1:14 PM by Nina_Jay | |
| 8 Feb 10, 8:51 PM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
I do hotel and home visits with a safe call. I text my Master and Mistress the details of where I'm going phone them to say when I'm there and then phone when I leave. If I don't phone back within the alloted time then they know to raise the alarm. The client is told in advance that I will be doing a safe call when I take the booking. (Hotel visits get the room number!) Home visits the guy is actually telling you his home address in advance so he knows that a 3rd party has that address so I've found are fairly safe. Make sure you get paid at the start of the session! If you've discussed limits and what you will not do in advance then they shouldn't be asking for it again on the day. See you at Swamp this weekend.
Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! | |
| 9 Feb 10, 11:13 PM Wildfruit UK(M), 3 yrs £ |
My tribute is the same as real girls I do not have any problems with my rate....anyway good luck with your venture.. Sarah...x The Northwest of England Premier Trans-Mistress. www.sarah-kane.co.uk |