TV PRO SUBS (61)

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Sat 9 Jan 10, 12:06 AM
Nina_Jay
UK(TA), 12 mths
£
I'm looking into becoming a TV pro sub and would be intereted to hear from any others that use this site and do this.
I've had some good advice already from Tara and a few of my friends who think I'd do ok as I look pretty good and enjoy the lifestyle as well as being a bit of a pain slut and enjoying humiliation even though I only do it for fun at the moment. I've already had some guy in London offer to pay me to be in his bondage film which is a good start and some interest from some modeling profiles I've put up too.
The problem with modeling is as a TV most don't want to pay much if anything and I guess this could be the same being a sub too. Even if I look better than many real women that make good money doing this.
What do you think is a pro TV sub ever going to make money?
Edited Sat 9 Jan 10, 12:11 AM by Nina_Jay

9 Jan 10, 12:29 AM
Mistress_Avralivia
UK(RG), 10 mths
£
I'm not sure how much work you would get, but I don't see any harm in trying if you don't use it as your main source of income to begin with.

“If you find it hard to laugh at yourself, I would be happy to do it for you.”

9 Jan 10, 12:44 AM
OllieVW
UK(EH), 11 mths

I think it would depend on what you are and are not willing to do.
I know pro-TS subs who make a good living but again they lean towards more intense, extreme and sexual play.
Maybe some of the pro-dom/mes that work in dungeons and know of customers who are interested will get in touch with you.
Good Luck
Hit me with your rhythm stick. Hit me! Hit me! Je t'adore, ich liebe dich, Hit me! hit me! hit me! Hit me with your rhythm stick. Hit me slowly, hit me quick. Hit me! Hit me! Hit me!
Ian Dury & the Blockheads

9 Jan 10, 9:49 AM
Nina_Jay
UK(TA), 12 mths
£

OllieVW wrote:
I think it would depend on what you are and are not willing to do.
I know pro-TS subs who make a good living but again they lean towards more intense, extreme and sexual play.
Maybe some of the pro-dom/mes that work in dungeons and know of customers who are interested will get in touch with you.
Good Luck
I did some modeling for trussedup.com and the guy that runs the site was pleased with the results and wanted me back again but sadly he's now looking for me to be more dirty! Which I guess means sex and I'm sure if I was to go this way could make money like other TV's and TS's do. I've been asked how much I charge both when out and by e-mail quite a few times in the past.
Do you think if I become a pro sub and refuse to have sex after I've been spanked/caned/tied up and so on clients will be left unhappy or anoided with me even if I state beforehand no sex, blow jobs ect?

Edited 9 Jan 10, 9:51 AM by Nina_Jay

9 Jan 10, 12:26 PM
OllieVW
UK(EH), 11 mths

Nina_Jay wrote:

OllieVW wrote:
I think it would depend on what you are and are not willing to do.
I know pro-TS subs who make a good living but again they lean towards more intense, extreme and sexual play.
Maybe some of the pro-dom/mes that work in dungeons and know of customers who are interested will get in touch with you.
Good Luck
I did some modeling for trussedup.com and the guy that runs the site was pleased with the results and wanted me back again but sadly he's now looking for me to be more dirty! Which I guess means sex and I'm sure if I was to go this way could make money like other TV's and TS's do. I've been asked how much I charge both when out and by e-mail quite a few times in the past.
Do you think if I become a pro sub and refuse to have sex after I've been spanked/caned/tied up and so on clients will be left unhappy or anoided with me even if I state beforehand no sex, blow jobs ect?

If they are tough shit.
Its a minefiled and your never 100% safe no matter what anybody else says.
You set the boundaries, limits can and cant's. If you make an arrangement and this is broken then its assult simple as that, read up on the law, theres loads of great advice on this site and loads that will give you guidance.
If you start getting clients and they become regular, youll become more confident and acceptable and potentialy expand your boundaries.
Its about how you feel as well as what they want.
Stay true to yourself or youll end up skull fucked but not in a good way.
My view and it is only my view is, all play is very sexual for me im a masochist, so performing a sexual act as part of play would be no big thing. Your providing a service so why not be the best at it.
I get judged everyday by strangers as long as your happy within yourself, honest with those around you i.e. if you have a partner.
Look back to how you felt when you came out so to speak!
Hit me with your rhythm stick. Hit me! Hit me! Je t'adore, ich liebe dich, Hit me! hit me! hit me! Hit me with your rhythm stick. Hit me slowly, hit me quick. Hit me! Hit me! Hit me!
Ian Dury & the Blockheads

9 Jan 10, 12:38 PM
MissP
UK(EN), 6 yrs

Nina_Jay wrote:
Do you think if I become a pro sub and refuse to have sex after I've been spanked/caned/tied up and so on clients will be left unhappy or anoided with me even if I state beforehand no sex, blow jobs ect?

As well as stating on your site that you don't provide sexual services, you should also verbally reconfirm this when the client books, and hopefully you'll avoid any nasty scenes.
Your pix are great, good luck with it!

www.thedivinemissp.co.uk

9 Jan 10, 6:28 PM
Mistress_Sarah_Kane
UK(CH), 18 mths
£
Its very hard work, darling, our corner of the market is so samll, its not a viable full time. I have been in this game for over 10 years now. Good luck.
The Northwest of England Premier Trans-Mistress. www.sarah-kane.co.uk
Edited 10 Jan 10, 10:03 AM by Mistress_Sarah_Kane

9 Jan 10, 6:34 PM
ImSorryMummy
UK(AL), 2 yrs

Nina, I've also done some work with the guy from Trussed Up, he's a good guy isn't he?
i know what you mena though about him wanting you to be more 'dirty' in later photoshoots, something that i dont want of me online for obvious reasons, but once you say that he wont keep asking lol.
he told me about a guy that does web page making for him for dirt cheap, maybe ask him about it? if you're serious about this it's definitely worth getting a website made up if nothing else than so you can showcase your photos and put up a FAQ/what you are willing to do on it.
if you know any i would say talk to some pro spanking people, you could always start there, get into the game that way and then upgdare as it were to a full sub, you could probably keep most of your clients that way.
i have to say, i've seen very few pro t girls that arent escorts, so be careful you dont fall down that pit. though if you keep saying that you dont provide sex/sexual services and it's only bdsm services you'll sort out the ones that want what you're offering fairly quickly.
Special Ed *WARNING do not click if you cannot take a joke or are too sensitive*
"These are the Phenomena that every pretty Domina is hoping at her Universitee we shall see"- W.S Gilbert

10 Jan 10, 12:02 PM
sub_serena
UK, 23 mths

Nina_Jay wrote:

OllieVW wrote:
I think it would depend on what you are and are not willing to do.
I know pro-TS subs who make a good living but again they lean towards more intense, extreme and sexual play.
Maybe some of the pro-dom/mes that work in dungeons and know of customers who are interested will get in touch with you.
Good Luck
I did some modeling for trussedup.com and the guy that runs the site was pleased with the results and wanted me back again but sadly he's now looking for me to be more dirty! Which I guess means sex and I'm sure if I was to go this way could make money like other TV's and TS's do. I've been asked how much I charge both when out and by e-mail quite a few times in the past.
Do you think if I become a pro sub and refuse to have sex after I've been spanked/caned/tied up and so on clients will be left unhappy or anoided with me even if I state beforehand no sex, blow jobs ect?

you will more than likely find that as a TV pro sub that your clients will be interested in your 'extra' bits.. so I feel you would have to differentiate yourself from females to get work , unfortunately that would mean using your cock.. or clients would see a female submissive .x

owned , happy and contented.x

10 Jan 10, 1:53 PM
Nina_Jay
UK(TA), 12 mths
£

OllieVW wrote:
If they are tough shit.
Its a minefiled and your never 100% safe no matter what anybody else says.
You set the boundaries, limits can and cant's. If you make an arrangement and this is broken then its assult simple as that, read up on the law, theres loads of great advice on this site and loads that will give you guidance.
If you start getting clients and they become regular, youll become more confident and acceptable and potentialy expand your boundaries.
Its about how you feel as well as what they want.
Stay true to yourself or youll end up skull fucked but not in a good way.
My view and it is only my view is, all play is very sexual for me im a masochist, so performing a sexual act as part of play would be no big thing. Your providing a service so why not be the best at it.
I get judged everyday by strangers as long as your happy within yourself, honest with those around you i.e. if you have a partner.
Look back to how you felt when you came out so to speak!
I think you're right about being the best at what you do being important and I think I'd want to be the best and have to be if not offering sex. I don't want people thinking what a waste of money she was and not coming back again!
I also realize how at risk I'm putting myself of being beaten really badly or raped while tied up and helpless but think I'm a very good judge of character and quite careful so this will help. I've met people for fun before who've tied me up and so far although they've not paid for me they've been great and have even said I should charge if I'm not bothered who plays or spanks me.

10 Jan 10, 1:57 PM
Nina_Jay
UK(TA), 12 mths
£

MissP wrote:
As well as stating on your site that you don't provide sexual services, you should also verbally reconfirm this when the client books, and hopefully you'll avoid any nasty scenes. Your pix are great, good luck with it!

Hopefully my pics will attract people to me as I have a profile on flickr and get mails all the time from people who see me and want too meet up(I guess for sex and not if I'm going to charge them) but time will tell if my looks are enough to help me get started if I'm not offering sex. I think a new website is now a must for me and ayone else who wants to do this so people know from the start what's on offer.
Edited 10 Jan 10, 1:58 PM by Nina_Jay

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