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| 12 Jan 10, 11:53 AM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £   |
Why not start a thread in informed debate about this topic, copying our posts across, and you can answer there?
Senno Ekto Gamat | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 6:11 PM AnEnglishMaster UK(ME), 5 yrs |
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| 12 Jan 10, 6:27 PM relaxed1 UK(BR), 6 yrs |
I agree entirely, though with the addition of: - bigotry and intolerance Happily, all of these are rarely encountered (in my experience at least) and are usually detectably from postings or from early exchanges. "We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking up at the stars" - Oscar Wilde | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 6:32 PM PortionsForFoxes UK(SE), 5 yrs |
A serial monogamist. I find it hard to put my trust in anyone who seems incapable of holding down a relationship for any amount of time. I say this because I used to be one and man, I wouldn't have trusted me back then. "You'll be in love till it kills you both. You'll fight and you'll shag and you'll hate each other till it makes you quiver, but you'll never be friends. Love isn't brains, children, it's blood. Blood screaming inside you to work its will. I may be love's bitch, but at least I'm man enough to admit it." | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 6:34 PM Masters_Delight UK(WD), 5 yrs |
This thread seems to have gone slightly off topic. I didn't realise it was about religion. Anyway, back to the question asked.. If they smoked. I'm so fucking fabulous, i piss glitter. | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 6:38 PM Masters_Delight UK(WD), 5 yrs |
Too true. I'm so fucking fabulous, i piss glitter. | ||
| 12 Jan 10, 6:41 PM littlemissanna UK(NW), 5 yrs |
I think lying would be the most significant 'no-no' out there. It utterly undermines the trust that I think is fundamental to any D/s relationship or play. How can you play with someone, risk being put or putting someone in a potentially vulnerable situation, if you dont trust them? | ||
| 22 Jan 10, 7:35 PM Ms_Tytania 7 yrs |
Wouldn't the right word for what you are referring to be just "fickle" (I used to be one too, yanno : -ok maybe I still am, given the right circumstances). I understand "serial monogamist" as somebody who's been in several monogamous relationships through their lives, irrelevant of the length, and assuming there was sincerity and commitment in them, that is, they could be described as relationships, not flings? Just asking. "People are inherently evil, but very, very funny" - Joe Orton. Edited 22 Jan 10, 7:55 PM by Ms_Tytania | ||
| 22 Jan 10, 11:36 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
for me any of the following comments or behaviour send me running; *someone once said "Aww I was really looking forward to having a go with you" (implying that everyone else has so why not him) *when it feels like if it wasn't me, they would just as easily dash of with someone else *if they make any comment that makes me think they might be dangerous or not be approaching bdsm from the same point as me *if they seem chauvanistic or sexist (genuinely so) towards women and genuinely see them as objects on a day to day basis as part of that. Right I think that just about rules out all potential Dominants maybe *facepalms* It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | ||
| 22 Jan 10, 11:41 PM andrewsean UK(CO), 5 yrs |
Cardigans Treat problems like a dog would.....If you can't eat it or fuck it, piss on it and walk away. |
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