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Time to roll out an analogy methinks. A mate of mine owns a car which he drives from A to B and so on, just like most people do with their cars. However he enjoys driving so every so often he blows a wad of cash on renting a fast car for a day on the track and has a damn good time.

Nobody has yet said that the car is faking it and to be honest I don't think it would matter if it was. Some of the guys who rent the car might be able to get a car just as nice, some not, some wouldn't want the hassle of maintaining and insuring such a car even if they could get one.

It's much the same deal. Some guys like a no strings attached treat once in a while. Does that make them worthy of derision? Not in itself. Does it make the people providing that service bad in any way? Again, no.

At first I thought all the anti-PD stuff was the kind of lively and entertaining stuff that makes for fun internets, but at this point the usual suspects are starting to sound like Republican web-warriors or something.

If you can keep your head while all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you, you might want to stop waving that axe around.

The peeps that run the "track" are so dishonest that they advise you to cheat on your "car" the kindly old metro that has served you loyally for years.

It's nice that you have shared the odd drink with pro dommes but don't let it cloud your judgement.

Why don't you give up on seeking a relationship and visit pro dommes instead, doghouse?

Edited 9 Jan 10, 3:07 PM by McDelphian

I don't see why this matters. Is visiting a domme who is secretly a sub with a husband carcinogenic or something? A guy pays his money, if has a good time, what does any of that matter? The guy gets his jollies, he gets to go back to the office, or back to his wife and his kids or whatever and carry on with his day. Maybe she goes back to the kitchen sink, who cares? It's all about that hour.

That points probably been done to death in other threads but to be honest while I don't think trying to coax anybody away from a fulfilling relationship is ethical I've always believed it takes two to tango. If a guy cheats it's on him. You don't blame the sofa when the dog humps it.

You're confusing the notion of 'clouding' with 'informing'. How do you expect to know anything about anything without asking the people involved? And by asking I don't mean leaving a loaded question lying around an internet forum like a paper bag with a poo inside it.

As for why I don't just give up on relationships and visit PDs, well first there's the minor issue of what to do with one. I mean we going to watch the telly or what? A pro sub would be more practical, but I've never been the sort of person to think, "OMFG MUST PADDLE SOMEBODY NOW!"

If you can keep your head while all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you, you might want to stop waving that axe around.

No but if you claim to be a dominant and take money based on this statement it's a bit dishonest if you're a sub isn't it? Do you wear snides? Is your rolex from turkey?

Its been done to death because loyalty is important to maintain a healthy relationship. Most peeps are disgusted by cheating but not pro dommes. Its their bread and butter!

Edited 9 Jan 10, 11:36 PM by McDelphian

Thing is a session is not an object, it's a thing that happens. Sure I can see that to you it matters a lot that the experience is totally genuine. But there are clearly a hell of a lot of people who either do not care, or who are happy to live in denial, or who actually are getting the real deal. So where's the harm? You're not Woodward and Bernstein and this is not the greatest conspiracy in the universe, it's capitalism. Raw, dirty, capitalism and it's what makes us better than the animals.

So what? Seriously where's the big deal here?

Are you an ethical consumer so exacting in your standards that you'll bring the hammer down on the PDs for the damage they do to the Great British Family Unit? I wonder if you're this voracious in your pursuit of Coca Cola for their sometimes lethal anti-union tactics. Or Lockheed Martin for all those cute little orphans with missing limbs their bombs left in Iraq. Or maybe the marketing industry just because let's face it they are all cunts. You got a forum full of rage for them too?

Your quest to deliver as much rage as possible is either madness or Sparta. I have yet to decide which.

If you can keep your head while all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you, you might want to stop waving that axe around.

You're right, it is just capitalism, dirty filthy capitalism but with the added trades and description lies.

I suppose it all depends on whether you are a beggar or a chooser, not wanting to be big headed but compared to a lot of sub males I'm Don Juan. I've had my pick and I can catergorically say that real genuine domintion is better than being dommed by a sub ( however hot the sub is)

it's nice that you are being honest on behalf of the pro dommes because they would never admit to being a sub.. Wonder why??

As a switch I suppose that you have to settle for someone you can skullfuck but who will plonk herself on your boat another night, like I say; fine if you're a switcheroo but it's bullshit if you're 100% sub and this is why pd's never admit to subbing.

Your subby female pals would usually jump on a thread about being dommed by a sub but because they are "friends" with pro dommes they are keeping their distance.

Sparta?? I'm not with you. I just hate how certain sections of ic was being run and censored by pro dommes.

The last straw was when a bunch of sex workers pounced on the poor fella who was skanked by another bunch of pro's

This isn't pro mistresses dot com so I'm fine to question their dishonesty etc.

Obviously they'd love me to get a timeout but the sun shines on the righteous around these parts

In sumarry ; Get some genuine action.

Edited 10 Jan 10, 5:23 PM by McDelphian