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Verbal humiliation (54)
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10 Feb 10, 9:15 PM
LousyReputation
3 yrs |
rubbermistress wrote:
Verbal humiliation
Good morning all
Apologies been here a while but first post here.As somebody on here said BDSM is a long journey and things can change.It took me quite a while to realise what I am and what I want and I am loving the new experiences.I just wanted to briefly explain a little about me.
My post concerns verbal humiliation and that several subs who have approached me enjoy this aspect of BDSM.I am on a learning curve and would appreciate the boards thoughts regarding this area.
I find this hard to explain but Im finding in a lot of cases these are males who have successfully achieved a good career with a good homelife family etc.Is this ignored and pushed aside then lay into them all guns blazing stripping them of all manhood,pride & confidence etc.
Many thanks
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It is something that I enjoy being subjected to mainly because I don't genuinely believe some of the things that are said. IMO it will only work if at least discussed beforehand and a level of trust has been reached.
"Social order at the expense of liberty is hardly a bargain."
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11 Feb 10, 11:55 PM
hollythedolly
UK(NN), 2 yrs
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InnocentAmateur wrote:
rubbermistress wrote:
Verbal humiliation
Good morning all
Apologies been here a while but first post here.As somebody on here said BDSM is a long journey and things can change.It took me quite a while to realise what I am and what I want and I am loving the new experiences.I just wanted to briefly explain a little about me.
My post concerns verbal humiliation and that several subs who have approached me enjoy this aspect of BDSM.I am on a learning curve and would appreciate the boards thoughts regarding this area.
I find this hard to explain but Im finding in a lot of cases these are males who have successfully achieved a good career with a good homelife family etc.Is this ignored and pushed aside then lay into them all guns blazing stripping them of all manhood,pride & confidence etc.
Many thanks
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It is something that I enjoy being subjected to mainly because I don't genuinely believe some of the things that are said. IMO it will only work if at least discussed beforehand and a level of trust has been reached.
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This what i cant get my head around what happens when it becomes verbal abuse |
12 Feb 10, 12:07 AM
Super_Slut_321
UK(MK), 4 yrs
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rubbermistress wrote:
Verbal humiliation
Good morning all
Apologies been here a while but first post here.As somebody on here said BDSM is a long journey and things can change.It took me quite a while to realise what I am and what I want and I am loving the new experiences.I just wanted to briefly explain a little about me.
My post concerns verbal humiliation and that several subs who have approached me enjoy this aspect of BDSM.I am on a learning curve and would appreciate the boards thoughts regarding this area.
I find this hard to explain but Im finding in a lot of cases these are males who have successfully achieved a good career with a good homelife family etc.Is this ignored and pushed aside then lay into them all guns blazing stripping them of all manhood,pride & confidence etc.
Many thanks
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Perhaps it depends on what is said. For example, if someone told me that I was a dirty little slut and a whore, I would have to concur. That said, there are many things which, when said, can hurt a chaps feelings.
Saying stuff like "You love it don't you?" if a chap is enthusiastically licking your feet, or surrendering to you or whatever, is probably fairly safe, at least for as long as his body language is telling you: "Yes, I do!"
Beyond that, perhaps you need to get to know someone to be able to indulge in this sort of play with them. |
26 Feb 10, 2:15 PM
Mr_Worm
UK(BN), 6 yrs
  
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Super_Slut_321 wrote:
Beyond that, perhaps you need to get to know someone to be able to indulge in this sort of play with them.
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sometimes when you know them it doesn't make it any better 
the verbal abuse if used occasionally does add an extra zest and twist to the scene (and tbh I'm never quite sure which tangent she is going to take off on  ) |
