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Pro Mistress Board (75)

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7 Jan 10, 10:01 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs

Tara_Red wrote:

...free rope workshop this Sunday at Swamp where he usually DM's.

That's been cancelled for now, on account of the weather. Bummer, but there we go.

Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?

7 Jan 10, 11:18 PM
Miss_serena
4 yrs

Clockworkknight wrote:

McDelphian wrote:
Oh im sure we'll meet soon enough - i just wont broadcast it in case a van load of pimps/doms/partners of pro dommes turn up.

Clockworkknight wrote:

McDelphian wrote:

I'm stuck in, even my pimpmobile cant deal with this snow so you have me till it thaws.

CookieMonster wrote:
Now its reached the "Do you know who I am" phase of clashing egos how about a break?

luckily my massive beast still works though - hehehe

seriously though when are we going to see you at a munch or club?

its okay they ve already caught up with me a few times - lol

not yet little one....

owned , happy and contented.x

9 Jan 10, 12:27 PM
a1frenchy
UK(BS), 4 yrs

Curiosity killed the cat

sub_serena wrote:
Pro Mistress Board

Dear Admin, I am very curious about the use of the Pro Mistress board , there seems to be a group of people who take pleasure in jumping on anything that is said ..could we have some definition of the main use of the board to clear it up ..many thanks x

14 Feb 10, 2:43 AM
cough_cough
UK(W), 4 yrs
£

Mistress_Avralivia wrote:
Well...

I shall probably get slated, but actually don't care.

I have a few questions for PD's and for the general IC public.

1) Why does everyone find Delphian such a problem? He posts what he thinks, so do I, so do others. If their opinion doesn't match mine then hey we all have different views on life/BDSM etc.

2) Do any PD's actually post in a way that keeps up their image? Are they willing to admit to a *screen persona*? I for one post on my PD account and personal one exactly the same. I am what I am, my opinions do not change, nor does my posting style.

3) If people do not like trolls, why do they constantly feel the need to feed them? If they post something stupid, and no-one replies then it just gets ignored and no-one pays any attention to it surely?

4) Why is there a seeming problem with switches being PD's? As long as you are good at what you do, why does it make any difference how you handle your private life?

5) Why isn't anyone starting any decent threads on IC lately? I am so terribly bored of IC at the moment, but continue to log in in the hope that as usual things will go full circle and people will go back to replying to and statrting interesting BDSM related topics.

6) Do people actually get clients from IC? I think I have two people enquire as to a session from IC, and neither has yet booked.

7) Why am I even bothering posting this? No fecking idea! lol

Answers -

1) I don't find him much of a problem. In the beginning I considered him amusing........ then I got bored.

2) I don't have a *screen persona*. I need somewhere to just be ME, and this is as good as any place for that.

3) What you have stated seems the obvious.......... and logical

4) Yes, I agree. Don't know why it should be a big deal if a PD is a switch in her 'private' life....... or even in session, it's her business.

5).........

6) I have had one client from IC, who was aware of me when 'training' and then contacted me after I 'set up shop'. And another who came across my website somewhere else and then came in here to check me out (somehow he linked the two together). Both men only told me at the end of our session of knowing me from here, thank goodness for that!! It may have inhibited me if I had this knowledge beforehand as there are one or two personal details I have revealed about myself here that are not part of my professional site etc. There may be others who have not revealed themselves

"It's not what people say, but what they DO that counts"

14 Feb 10, 9:18 AM
Ksoc_Tuppep
UK, 2 yrs

For me personally I wouldn't have a problem if any Domme with whom I was sessioning was a switch - whether Pro or lifestyle.

There could be a couple of personal factors in that. Firstly I switch. Secondly for me BDSM is play, a game that gets my rocks off. Providing that's happening (definitely both ways with a lifestyle Domme, and it's a bonus with a Pro Domme) I'm happy.

In fairness even in the less specific boards there are not an infinite number of BDSM topics and there's probably about fifty on regular rotation in total - depending on how you categorise.

Pro Dommes (particularly) are a significant part of the scene as a whole because of the disparity between the number of Dommes and the number of subs and the number of married subs or subs in a relationship who can't, for whatever reason, get their partners to fulfil their fantasies. For some Pro Dommes are going to be the only experience of BDSM they get. Having a separate board appears valid.

I'm not going to get involved with specific arguments. If a post or series of posts breaches site rules Admin can and should take appropriate action - including banning the poster. If one person is harassing several individuals they could jointly petition Admin to take action. Ignoring, where possible, provocative posts may be more effective than adding fuel to the fire by challenging them. And of course withdrawal from the site, boycotting it, is the final option, if you feel that you are being unfairly treated and insufficient action is being taken to protect you.

Edited 16 Feb 10, 10:22 PM by Ksoc_Tuppep