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| 5 Jan 10, 12:25 AM mistywolf UK, 3 yrs    |
Most of the time i use "Master" anything else just doesn't feel right now. "How lonely is the night without the howl of a wolf." ~ Unknown | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 12:39 AM Clyde1 UK(NW), 5 yrs  |
By Her name or Ma'am unless we're playing Scrabble in which case Loser normally suffices... and I'm in big trouble now! | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 12:44 AM Gentleman_Tom UK(SE), 4 yrs |
One addresses Her in the way that She desires. i feel the Ma'am term is respectful and can be used for other Dommes one meets | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 1:21 AM dominalush UK(RG), 5 yrs  |
lol you never change do you clyde...facectious to the last!!My boys call Me Maam when we are at home or out with other perves,min when we out in vanilla mode. to give pain is my pleasure...... | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 1:41 AM Susan_Williams UK(CH), 3 yrs |
I used to think something like that when I was on the outside looking in. I thought all these honorifics were a bit pretentious. That was until I actually got involved in a D/s relationship, then it all changed. After having my bum whacked by a Domme I couldn't imagine calling her anything else but Mistress or something similar. Anything else just wouldn't have seemed right.
Thats the Post Code of the big man in a red suit and a white beard that has recently past by these parts. Apparently he has an agency in Belfast staffed by elves that handle his mail for him. Susan Williams | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 2:09 AM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
Interesting that loyal_micheal deleted his original post but as it had already been quoted by 2 other posters he then replies to it! Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 2:18 AM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
Sir is always Sir even in vanilla land I have always called him that without him having to ask, Mistress Geo is usually called Geo by us both but I often call her Mistress at home and I always call her Mistress in session or in fetish company. I work with Big John professionally and I always call him Sir too, even when meeting socially he isn't John to me but Sir. They've earnt my respect and I look up to them. Each to their own, you follow what you think is the protocol suitable for the occasion or the relationship, no-one is right or wrong. I've always called my dominants Sir if they've earnt my respect and I like to do that. I have made the mistake of using the names bitch n bastard in a really tough session and paid the price, but although meant at the time I have to remember that calling Sir and Mistress bitch and bastard are not safe words lol! Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! Edited 5 Jan 10, 2:19 AM by Tara_Red | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 8:00 AM Outlier UK(W), 2 yrs |
Personally, I do not insist on being addressed as "Master" or "Sir", and have never wished to be addressed as such other than in play. "I am from nowhere and everywhere" Karl Lagerfeld | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 9:50 AM goldberry UK(BN), 4 yrs |
'Dear Bastard' Strange little girl, where are you going? - The Stranglers | ||||
| 5 Jan 10, 9:56 AM little_e UK(BS), 4 yrs |
always Master or Master Deviant, usually I try petnames if he's being nasty. But that only ever gets me a firm thwap on the behind. I've learnt, buttering up Doms can be painful  Elena x |
