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| Sat 2 Jan 10, 11:56 AM dominalush UK(RG), 5 yrs   |
Like most Dommes I recieve many applications from submissives,mostly male,wishing to be considered for service.As a pro as well as a lifestyle Mistress obviously My criteria for accepting them differs depending on whether they want to book a session with Me professionally or serve as a personal submissive.So,My question, to all the other Mistresses out there,is what skills would you like to have in a personal sub...what would make him(or her)stand out from the rest?If there is a skill or skills that come up again and again then it could be a good guide for a sub as to how he could make himself and his application more likely to suceed.
personally My wish list is
(1)a hairdresser..I have masses of unruly curly hair...a personal stylist would be My idea of heaven..
(2)a sub skilled in giving manicures and pedicures
(3)a driver with a CLEAN comfortable car
(4)an expert in massage/acupuncture/reiki/indian head massage
(5)a mechanic to keep My old heap on the road
(6)a handyman/gardener/general worker
(7)a sub who,though possesing none of the above skills,has loads of money to pay for someone else to do them lol.
so,come on ladies...its new year and we're allowed to dream....
to give pain is my pleasure...... | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 12:12 PM penwiggle UK(CB), 5 yrs  |
May I answer as a sub who would love to be a 'personal servant' similar to what you have in mind. What I would like to provide for a Domme, Dom or Couple is the following:
I hate gardening, so would hire that out, LOL. If this fantasy became a reality, I would seek out professional training to become a better cook and masseur. I'm already a good driver, but might take some advanced driving courses. All I would ask for in return is time to write each day. Such a life would be as blissful to me as having someone do everything on your list is to you. I imagine. Good luck in your search. Pen You say Ouch like it's a bad word. | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 12:21 PM Ms_Adventure UK, 3 yrs |
Skills of a highly desired submissive: (im getting all excited just thinking about it  )• Eye candy ~ I like to be looking at something that looks good. • Painslut ~ I need to relieve myself of stress frequently. • Driver with a nice car ~ for obvious reasons. • Sense of humour ~ to make me laugh. • The ability to do as he is told ~ just to make my life easier. • The ability to pamper, masseur and manicure ~ I like to be spoilt. • Honesty and reliability ~ because they are important to me. And finally.... • Dedicated to the cause ~ because Im worth it.
Not really a list of skills, but my requirements are simple...
(eta:~ if anyone reading this feels they match my requiremnts please feel free to memo me *eh hem* The Cruel Huntress Forum Edited 2 Jan 10, 12:23 PM by Ms_Adventure | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 12:23 PM Caracal UK(SS), 5 yrs       |
One who's brain is located above his neck. What is a Caracal? | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 12:25 PM MamaGoth UK(BN), 3 yrs |
oh I have had a fair few service subs . a gardener but who wanted to wear rubber in the garden whilst working pretty hard to going down with the nieghbours . many housemaids but mostly lazy ones . plenty of offers for car mechanic subs but can't seem to get their arses beyond the emails grrrrr . DIY ones, now that was a coop and very much appreciated the workload taken on rewarded with severe thrashings . someone to watch chick flicks with, have take-aways, fetch my wine and have girly chit chat - that was a great friend . again lots of offers for dinner party hostesses but never taken them up ' don't get me started on those that live local and promised to be ma taxi service! You ring them up and they never turn up all bullshit excuses grrrr, that is 3 so called blokey chaffeur subs locally . been offered decorator subs but didn't have any decoreating for them so can't say if they are 'doers'
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| 2 Jan 10, 12:28 PM MamaGoth UK(BN), 3 yrs |
oh forgot to add my wish list would be to have a car mechanic sub to pamper ma Figaro | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 12:51 PM MsSarah UK(PO), 9 yrs |
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| 2 Jan 10, 12:54 PM Nichty 11 yrs |
well a car mechanic sub sounds pretty easy... thanks nichty | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 1:00 PM MamaGoth UK(BN), 3 yrs |
you try capturing one then you tell me it is easy | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 1:29 PM penwiggle UK(CB), 5 yrs |
Good luck with that. You say Ouch like it's a bad word. | ||
| 2 Jan 10, 3:46 PM erus_boy_g UK(SK), 4 yrs |
This is a very interesting question, and i think it is all based on the natural submissivness of the person to whether or not they make a good personal slave, which in my mind is that step further than being a good sub. Shall watch this thread and see if i can pick up any tips to improve my slavery.
very happily Owned and Collared by Ms LacednLicked |
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