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| Sun 13 Dec 09, 9:09 PM successfu1 5 yrs  |
So, I can't be the only one heading off for a vanilla family Christmas.. What are you folks off to, and how're you intending to stay sane amongst the family queries of if you've met a 'nice respectable young man/women'? Anyone got any good survival tips for how not to mutter darkly into your Christmas pudd the things you'd prefer a disrespectful young/older man/woman to do if you met?! Happy holidays! Tebasile.
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| 13 Dec 09, 9:14 PM the_unsub 2 yrs |
I'm probably in the same boat, as my brother and his girlfriend are currently living together I suspect that I'm going to get some similar comments. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step - Confucius Edited 13 Dec 09, 9:15 PM by the_unsub | |
| 13 Dec 09, 9:20 PM erus_boy_g UK(SK), 4 yrs  |
i love christmas itself, but the few days trapped with the family are absolute hell on earth, of completely previously unknown mindnumbing and boring proportions.
Tsk very happily Owned and Collared by Ms LacednLicked | |
| 13 Dec 09, 9:29 PM Elohims_jay UK(B), 7 yrs |
Friday 18th - Rapture @ Ceasers
Saturday 19th - Revel @ Ceasers
Sunday 20th - BBB @ Nightingale Xmas day - My parents for feeding and pressies Boxing day - His parents or home for more feeding NYE @ Ceasers Think we got a nice balance of perv and normal this year. My lot know all about us and our lifestyle so no need to pretend when with them. Only time we have to be "normal" is if we go to his lot Boxing day. "You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough." ~ George Moore | |
| 13 Dec 09, 9:31 PM anweledig UK, 2 yrs |
Have to go back home for the holidays and i just know that everyone will be asking how my time in London has been and will be quite awkward if any of them ask if i have made any friends there. Have a feeling christmas diner is going to be interesting Edited 13 Dec 09, 9:33 PM by anweledig | |
| 13 Dec 09, 9:35 PM shibari_mike UK(IG), 3 yrs |
I shall be trying to slide in as many kinky puns as I can without anyone noticing.  A wise-man once told me never to trust anything a wise-man tells you. | |
| 13 Dec 09, 9:49 PM friendly_Paradox UK(NN), 6 yrs |
Yes I remember Christmases like that. All those questions and never knowing whether to shock them or not to rock the boat. How could they possibly understand us young folk? Take a tip from me. However awkward, uncomfortable or boring it may feel, Christmas back home with the family, isn't for surviving. Relish every moment. Life isn't all about kink. There will be things that happen in your life that you'll instinctively want to tell your mother or father about, but there'll come a time you won't be able to. They won't be there for ever.
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| 13 Dec 09, 9:53 PM Pup_Slut UK(WC), 2 yrs |
I'll be spending Christmas with my family, which will involve eating junk food watching White Christmas and more than likely drinking too much. Good times. You can control her only as well as you can read her | |
| 13 Dec 09, 10:08 PM littlenic 5 yrs |
You're absolutely right - it's for avoiding like the plague. I've always hated Christmas, seeing it as two days a year where my status of sad singleton comes to the fore and is writ large for all to see. My married sister is perfectly entitled to not travel the whole ten minutes to my mother's house... I am expected to travel the three hours and to stay over, because I AM ALONE and apparently that is A BAD THING. No more. An argument over my personal life choices has finally given me the courage I needed to make the break; I'm spending this year alone, at home, and am expecting to love every single second of it.
Only downside - I've got no pressies to open! But the upsides are too plentiful to count. It's not just about the day itself, it's about the symbolism, about standing up for what matters to me, and about being true to myself - and that's what matters to me.
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| 13 Dec 09, 10:18 PM kinky_winky UK(WD), 7 yrs |
Xmas eve with Him & my teenage boys & out for dinner with them all that night
me & the 2 kids on xmas day & I have bought us all a 'joint' pressie - Guitar Hero 5 the 3 of us are gonna be rockin
Boxing day, boys to their dads, me to His where I have been promised a very special day Sunday all of us together with my family NYE - Sweet Torments
This year for the first time ever I am soooooo looking forward to christmas & all the fun kicks off on Tuesday at the Watford Munch Christmas Special ~ Happy ~ Complete ~ His ~ | |
| 13 Dec 09, 10:25 PM CarolinaMoon IE, 5 yrs |
I am off to my parents Christmas eve for 10 days!!!! They do live in London though so I don't see them that much. Himself is coming to stay half way through though....so no play unless the folks are out and very quiet sex me thinks. |
