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Name and shame .. (8)

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Posted by fiery_phoenix on Sat 12 Dec 09, 1:55 PM to fiery_phoenix's blog.

Name and Shame ..

Domicus72 Lodobass

Ok .. time for some open and frank honesty here .. I dont often feel the need to openly criticise or debunk Dominants .. but .. enough is enough ..

When You (and I use the "capitalisation" of the "Y" .. loosely here !!) .. arrange to meet someone .. it means that You will get Your bony arse off the settee and go and meet them ..

Now .. if for some reason .. You feel that we are not right for each other .. I am an adult .. I do not stalk or otherwise embarrass myself by questionning that decision .. I will simply move on to the next potential .. simple really .. simple logic .. I work on logic .. its what keeps me sane daily .. !!

Now .. a text .. or phone call .. or even an email .. IM or PM would have been sufficient .. in this day and age communication is easy .. even for ingrates such as yourself .. only a coward simply switches his phone off .. does not answer texts or anwser phone messages of which there were only 2 texts and 1 answerphone message .. I do not beg to meet anyone if they cant be bothered to let me know .. Only to find out that you had been on another website only hours after you were supposed to be meeting me .. so nothing tragic happened to you .. sadly !! Illustrates your selfish arrogance .. I pity the girl who sadly will be your submissive .. poor thing .. !!

As for me standing there like a complete idiot (by the way .. You are the idiot .. NOT me!!) waiting for this ficticious "Dom" to grace me with His presence .. but does not even have the common curtesy, manners or dignity even to let me know He has changed His mind .. everyone has the right to change their minds .. whether it be the last minute or .. hours in advance .. its called human rights .. but manners cost nothing .. but apparently even nothing is too expensive for your self righteous arrogance and ill-mannered oafish outlook ..

Whatever Your reasons for not taking up my kind offer to meet with You .. on very short notice .. I might add .. Your arrogance in thinking that Your actions would have no further consequences .. shows me that you (note no caps here !!) are indeed nothing like a Dominant .. you are a false representation of what a Dominant is about in His core being .. you have shown by your utter ill-mannered oafish behaviour that you are not worthy of my submission .. in fact .. you are not worthy of any submissives sumission .. hence my blog ..

you have no respect for submissives .. hence you are a danger to them .. if you have no respect .. on another note .. no wonder you are still single that in itself tells a tale .. or perhaps you are not single .. and the wife came home unexpectedly and caught you off guard .. whatever the reason .. you are a lyer and an embarrassment to the BDSM Community at large ..

A warning to all submissives .. take heed of this warning .. I will be adding to this list if I have others who treat us submissives in such a shabby manner ..

BTW YOU wont get to see this blog .. dear dominant .. because YOU are blocked and deleted .. god I love that function .. wish it worked in real life though ..

you know I used to wince when I read what some female Dommes think of male submissives .. but their words actually ring true with so called "men" .. spineless cowards that you are .. happily .. I carry hope .. and I KNOW there are respectful and wonderful Dominants who will and do cherish their submissives gift of submission .. so .. sadly I dont think you will ever get that happy .. *raises her eyebrow* ..

To be continued ..

phoenix .. December 2009

Replies

12 Dec 09, 1:59 PM
JudyInDsGuise
UK(E), 9 yrs
fiery_phoenix wrote:
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BTW YOU wont get to see this blog .. dear dominant .. because YOU are blocked and deleted .. god I love that function .. wish it worked in real life though ..

Sorry to interrupt the rant ;-) but anyone can see this...even non-members.

judy

I must be only one in a million (© David Bowie)

12 Dec 09, 2:21 PM
rubesque
UK, 4 yrs
There is no excuse for such shabby behaviour.

It just illustrates he wasn't worth a fart anyhow.

Hope all goes well for you x

He looked into My eyes, and I almost died. Then I remembered what I was and half killed him.

12 Dec 09, 2:21 PM
andrewsean
UK(CO), 5 yrs

That is lower than a slugs arse really, it takes a few seconds to compose a text or make a quick call to tell someone that the situation has changed.

I hope the coward lives to regret this action.

Treat problems like a dog would.....If you can't eat it or fuck it, piss on it and walk away.

12 Dec 09, 2:30 PM
little_belle
UK(E), 4 yrs

Unfortunately, no matter how much of a douche someone has been you still aren't allowed to name them. It will only get you punished instead of them x

ETA: I do feel for your situation though, that really is a low thing to do.

Hewwo! I make nylon whips. Take a peek at my profile if you'd like to buy one. :)
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12 Dec 09, 3:14 PM
DanesWood
UK(OL), 4 yrs
Well last night I heard of a male sub who drove 100 miles to meet a woman only to receive a text when he arrived at the agreed location saying "Dream on". To say such behaviour disgusts me is an understatement.

I empathise with your reasons for posting this blog, however I suspect when the person named reads it, and reports it to Admin, you may well find yourself on a time out and the weblog removed.

"The most powerful sexual organ in the body is our brain, open your mind and allow your fantasies free reign. Mutual pleasure between consenting adults is a wonderful thing."

12 Dec 09, 3:58 PM
Amber_Light
3 yrs
At least you get to have this post up for a while which is a good thing after what rat features did (no I take that back, it is an insult to my beloved pet rats lol!) Now you can wipe him off the bottom of your shoe hun :-)

It does make me laugh though that so many sites ban us from stating the truth about people. So many of us here are anonymous anyway, I mean, in real life, if someone did what he did to me, I would have every right to go round telling my friends and work colleagues. I guess the site has to try to play fair to everyone in case there are just vindictive people around. Hope you can forget about this nerd and enjoy the rest of your weekend x

12 Dec 09, 7:25 PM
aka_kelly
UK(YO), 2 yrs

I know exactly how you feel, i travelled 120miles in heavy rain by motorbike to meet someone from another site, only to arrive, be stood up, and get no response to my call and text to say where are you. Hope you do find a trustworthy Dom to be happy with but for all the genuine Dom/mes and subs there are maybe 10 or more fakes/wannabes x:-(

Sometimes i'm kelly, sometimes i'm not, sometimes the difference is hard to spot!

15 Dec 09, 9:44 AM
fiery_phoenix
UK(NG), 4 yrs

JudyInDsGuise: oh well .. if he sees it .. so much the better .. hehehe

regards ..

phoenix ..

Feel the fear and do it anyway ..

Edited 15 Dec 09, 9:55 AM by fiery_phoenix

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