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| Sat 5 Dec 09, 3:29 PM Missdirection UK(LL), 3 yrs |
Sir and I communicate via text or memo on a regular basis. I am always conscious about saying the right thing so as not to annoy or upset Sir. Occassionally I send a memo or text and realise I have said something so ridiculously stupid - the latest being yesterday.
Without going into too much detail I basically said "why does it always have to be your way?", wanted to delete the memo but it was too late - Sir had already read it His response apart from hearing him roar with laughter from over 10 miles away? Pure glee at the thought of my cheekiness! So fellow subs, my question is simply: have you ever communicated to your Mistress/Sir with something so stupid you know you should have never sent it but was way too tempting to not hit "send"? If so, do tell and make me feel better than I am not the only one! pinky xx a smile across my ass with a slap across my face | |
| 5 Dec 09, 3:38 PM moltenhoney UK(M), 12 yrs |
Ohhh yessss <g>. You really aren't the only one - lol. I was texting someone and his spelling was a little, er, dodgy. I didn't exactly point it out but I came close and he texted back to say that he didn't correct my grammar and I should be careful. I couldn't help myself - I sent back "You ain't never met my grammar!". I know, I know. I shouldn't have done it, but it just had to be said <g>. honey | |
| 5 Dec 09, 3:56 PM flamesdesire UK(OX), 4 yrs |
Used to do it alot, now I have a rule that I have to engage my brain before I open my mouth or send a message.......think about what I am about to say and re word if needed. However I still manage to put me foot in it, and yes sometimes deliberately. For me engaging brain first is something that I have learnt to carry over into my vanilla life. If you want to say something to your One i.e
Think and re-phrase to Sir/Master (whatever your title is to them) please may I ask a question......please can you explain to me why it has to be this way, so that I can understand better. Then take it from there, our Dom/mes are always willing to listen, and be given a new way of looking at things. It will always ultimately be there choice whether or not to use said advise. jxx | |
| 5 Dec 09, 5:59 PM Zarabeth UK(TW), 3 yrs |
No, you are definately not the only one. I have done that before, but usually have the opposite problem. I tend to worry too much over my choice of wording and whether anything I said could possibly be construed as displeasing in the least little way. Therefore, I don't say much that I regret, but instead often leave important things unsaid, which in my opinion is even worse. Zarabeth | |
| 5 Dec 09, 6:56 PM tails18 UK(OX), 2 yrs |
You are definatly not alone there,
Miss asked me to write and essay, & I basicly responded "I don't see whats in it for me" Which after sending it I relised was pretty retarded | |
| 5 Dec 09, 7:37 PM kitty_claw UK(TN), 4 yrs |
I'm good at this, in 'normal' life too. I tend to say something that can be taken 2 ways but in my mind it only means what I want it to mean and I don't even see the other meaning.
The other person, however, does Kitty "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin | |
| 5 Dec 09, 8:21 PM Missdirection UK(LL), 3 yrs |
a smile across my ass with a slap across my face | |
| 5 Dec 09, 8:23 PM Mimi_69 UK(M), 4 yrs |
The beauty recently I have been communicating with Razor face to face... I know the look, meaning shut up or i will shut you up. bite me... please? Edited 5 Dec 09, 8:24 PM by Mimi_69 | |
| 5 Dec 09, 9:53 PM Neophites_jewel AU, 4 yrs |
oooooomg...just this evening, actually! Master and i are married and were before W/we began our D/s relationship. He was heading off to a friend's function tonight without me (where there will inevitably be alcohol, though He has said He will not drink), so i'm expecting Him home late, and i forgot myself a bit and said... 'look, i know this is cheeky, but please don't come home expecting sex' The look i got........*shudders* Stupid stupid stupid girl! "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." - Abraham Lincoln | |
| 5 Dec 09, 11:32 PM LadyLibidienne UK(CB), 8 yrs |
it certainly did lol "A heart is not judged by how much it loves but by how much it is loved" Wizard of Oz to the Tinman You give little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet | |
| 6 Dec 09, 1:13 AM misfit UK, 3 yrs |
This sounds familiar. I did not correct anyone overtly but in their e-mail a grammatical and a spelling error had been made which I corrected in my reply. I can not copy incorrect spelling or grammar but unfortunately this was spotted. I took my punishment like a good boy I now use different words in my reply as I still refuse to copy errors. M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. |