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sub assessment centre (85)

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Thu 3 Dec 09, 7:22 PM
cuffedboi
UK(CF), 4 yrs
This is only a suggestion, but to avoid the nonsense of timewasters, there should be regional sub assessment centres, where availabel subs must attend...be put through their paces, to be furnished with an end of assessment report, that can be validated by potential Doms/Dommes...it would same Dommes /Doms a lot of timewasting hunting...what do you think...could this scheme work
3 Dec 09, 7:25 PM
crystaltips
UK(S), 5 yrs
and of course there would be an equivalent for Doms and we are all looking for the same thing so it would work perfectly. So much for giving up sarcasm coz it gets me in so much trouble.
3 Dec 09, 7:25 PM
Dragonfyre
UK(M), 5 yrs

There could be different grades as well, like with learning to play a musical instrument, or like the coloured belts in karate :-) The sub gets a certificate saying "grade 1 submissive" or something. Of course, a certificate can be revoked and they get dropped down a level if they let their standards slip!
3 Dec 09, 7:26 PM
Zarabeth
UK(TW), 3 yrs



str8guy wrote:
sub assessment centre

This is only a suggestion, but to avoid the nonsense of timewasters, there should be regional sub assessment centres, where availabel subs must attend...be put through their paces, to be furnished with an end of assessment report, that can be validated by potential Doms/Dommes...it would same Dommes /Doms a lot of timewasting hunting...what do you think...could this scheme work

Who will certify the staff doing the assessments? Surely to avoid the nonsense of those who don't know what they are doing incorrectly assessing subs, they will need to be certified.

Zarabeth
"Every day is another chance to turn it all around."

3 Dec 09, 7:26 PM
mroberts
UK(EH), 6 yrs

In a word, no.

Not all doms/dommes are looking for the same thing by any stretch and even if they were, why would you put yourself through that?

Go out, speak to people and take it from there ...

Now ... speed dating bdsm style might have some merit :)

3 Dec 09, 7:27 PM
crystaltips
UK(S), 5 yrs
and we need to deal with the discreet cheating types.
3 Dec 09, 7:27 PM
hollythedolly
UK(NN), 2 yrs


Dragonfyre wrote:
There could be different grades as well, like with learning to play a musical instrument, or like the coloured belts in karate :-) The sub gets a certificate saying "grade 1 submissive" or something. Of course, a certificate can be revoked and they get dropped down a level if they let their standards slip!

How about a true dom certificates so the grade 8 subs can avoid them with a barge pole

3 Dec 09, 7:28 PM
crystaltips
UK(S), 5 yrs
hollythedolly wrote:
Dragonfyre wrote:
There could be different grades as well, like with learning to play a musical instrument, or like the coloured belts in karate :-) The sub gets a certificate saying "grade 1 submissive" or something. Of course, a certificate can be revoked and they get dropped down a level if they let their standards slip!

How about a true dom certificates so the grade 8 subs can avoid them with a barge pole

or slap them with a barge pole

3 Dec 09, 7:30 PM
Dragonfyre
UK(M), 5 yrs

hollythedolly wrote:
Dragonfyre wrote:
There could be different grades as well, like with learning to play a musical instrument, or like the coloured belts in karate :-) The sub gets a certificate saying "grade 1 submissive" or something. Of course, a certificate can be revoked and they get dropped down a level if they let their standards slip!

How about a true dom certificates so the grade 8 subs can avoid them with a barge pole

Ah, but the OP was only talking about sub assessments :-D

3 Dec 09, 7:31 PM
beestinglips
4 yrs
str8guy wrote:
sub assessment centre

This is only a suggestion, but to avoid the nonsense of timewasters, there should be regional sub assessment centres, where availabel subs must attend...be put through their paces, to be furnished with an end of assessment report, that can be validated by potential Doms/Dommes...it would same Dommes /Doms a lot of timewasting hunting...what do you think...could this scheme work

In your dreams, perhaps.

But while there's music and moonlight...

3 Dec 09, 7:33 PM
hollythedolly
UK(NN), 2 yrs


Dragonfyre wrote:
hollythedolly wrote:
Dragonfyre wrote:
There could be different grades as well, like with learning to play a musical instrument, or like the coloured belts in karate :-) The sub gets a certificate saying "grade 1 submissive" or something. Of course, a certificate can be revoked and they get dropped down a level if they let their standards slip!

How about a true dom certificates so the grade 8 subs can avoid them with a barge pole

Ah, but the OP was only talking about sub assessments :-D

I've opened the debate MOT tests for doms

Majority of you are old bangers with rusty exteriors and shabby interiors

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