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| 30 Jan 10, 3:57 PM gorbyme 4 yrs  |
Did somebody mention pampering :cD | |
| 30 Jan 10, 10:50 PM Vivien 4 yrs |
I love good hands on pampering, a candle light bath prepared the water at the perfect temperature. Being lovingly washed, legs shaved, hair shampooed, brushed, blown and straightened. My body carefully dried, moisturized and massaged followed by pedicure. It has to take hours and hours paying meticulous attention to detail 
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| 31 Jan 10, 1:39 AM switch_bitch UK(G), 7 yrs |
Wrong kinda pampers!!!
If you go through life with your head in the sand, all people will see, is an arse | |
| 31 Jan 10, 10:18 AM littlenic 5 yrs |
I'm more of a giver than a receiver when it comes to pampering, and indeed too much (e.g. Praxilla's post) would probably make me feel very uncomfortable! That said, I love having my hair played with, back and shoulder rubs are always good, and I'm being spoilt rotten with good cooking too (though I help, when I can!).
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| 31 Jan 10, 10:34 AM viragoangel UK(FY), 5 yrs |
I love having my hair stroked..by someone special..but not played with. My mate Gra' does that and it irritates me. Can't think of anything else that wouldn't make me feel awkward. Don't like people doing things for me (control freak!) or complimenting me...it just leaves me cold. (Gonna stick with Him stroking my hair) jules.x | |
| 31 Jan 10, 12:11 PM curvy_bottom UK(M), 8 yrs   |
mmm - hair brushing... but getting the bigger knots out with fingers first... loved, lost; found, loved | |
| 31 Jan 10, 12:38 PM Thistle US, 4 yrs |
I'd get bored with that if it was an every day sort of thing. But when it's a special occasion, I have to admit that I could greedily take in all I said. The caveat there is that I'd have to be able to give back just as good as I got. And probably 2 or 3 times as often. Maybe I'm content to receive, as well as give, because I'm a switchy type? Or maybe just sybaritic.
love the brave but avoid cowards, knowing the gratitude of cowards is small ~Praxilla of Sicyon | |
| 31 Jan 10, 2:02 PM littlenic 5 yrs |
Maybe it's that - or maybe it's just because I'm not used to it (which sounds a bit 'poor me' but isn't meant to - I'm sure I've stopped people from spoiling me in the past) and so it makes me feel uncomfortable. I know plenty of subs who would adore what you've outlined! Maybe if it were to happen I'd be thrilled... actually, no. A man giving me a manicure would never be thrilling! But the whole surprise weekend and stuff could be. I just know I'd be much much happier being the one doing the surprising. (Though that can backfire horribly when it's a dom you're surprising and instead of just relaxing into it and appreciating it it sets them on edge. It's a minefield, I tell ya!) | |
| 31 Jan 10, 2:06 PM bunnyjess 2 yrs |
definately, definately anything to do with hair being played with!... seems its not just me reading the above posts... also i love my neck bieng gently stroked uber meltiness... usually all best done with some random music or film on in the background... bliss! | |
| 31 Jan 10, 2:35 PM lahmai UK(SE), 2 yrs |
My hair being stroked and the back of my neck being caressed is gorgeous. My lover sometimes brings me cake when we meet. Now that's lovely. He's also bought me clothes and is a patient shopper. He's very thoughtful and makes sure I'm warm enough and comfortably seated (on his lap or otherwise). The other day he made sure I did up my coat because it was cold outside. We have discussed him washing my hair and I can't wait until we can make that a reality. It's all so conducive to the switchy dynamic: I can be lil girl (or boi)/beautiful Woman either way I'll do anything for a lollipop... Edited 1 Feb 10, 8:45 AM by lahmai |
