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| 3 Dec 09, 10:16 PM Sir_Stephen_Lon 2 yrs £ |
Kind of with you on this one. The first bit yes. The bit I have trouble with is the grey area between 'relationships' and regular play partners. I kinda want the later right now but it can trend to the former which I'm a bit iffy about (personally). I don't really like the single play encounter thing - these things build..... | ||
| 4 Dec 09, 12:07 AM Ms_Tytania 7 yrs |
It's all hard to explain in words. But there are people I enjoy playing with, not once, bur regularly, and yet I don't want to be in a relationship with them. Play friends, like there are fuck friends. Then, there are people I want for sharing other chunks of life than play, and a different closeness... but each arrangement, with each person, is different, that's why we can't really talk. When you meet a new person that you seem to click with at many levels, you will suck it (cough!) and see. "People are inherently evil, but very, very funny" - Joe Orton. Edited 4 Dec 09, 12:09 AM by Ms_Tytania | ||
| 29 Dec 09, 5:24 PM Educated_Savage UK, 3 yrs  |
I thought the last part of this reply was really sad but a sentiment I understand entirely. I know I was always kinky but until a few years ago I didn't really pursue it - I might try and introduce things that interested me to vanilla relationships but that was the extent of it. Now I've experienced and want so much more. But at the same time the pool of potential partners, partners willing to go where I want to go and do the things I want to do, has shrunk. Personally I don't play casually and for me kink is a sexual thing. At the moment I seem to meet vanilla women I find sexually attractive and kinky ones I don't.
I am a success. All these years I have eaten and not been eaten. | ||
| 20 Jan 10, 5:18 PM Pheonix_Ian 3 yrs |
Just had a luck at Bonnanza's numbers
I think these numbers based on active files show the general figures however I remember someone saying Male Subs to Female dommes, the ratio apparently is 5 to 1. At the moment all play I've done in the last year has been at clubs (apart from a disasterous couple of plays at someone's house) and more as a dom than sub which would also prove the figures. This allows me to be tongue in cheek as both dom and sub. I do enjoy it and have a laugh but a week or two later normally feel empty because there is no love and worse still (in my opinion) it gives them no reason to obey limits (I've have had this expierience, someone new didn't know what she was doing, nearly hurt me genuinely). | ||
| 28 Jan 10, 10:57 PM Kilgore_Trout UK(W), 3 yrs  |
I've not done much casual play before - I think it's not easy to fall into casual play unless you're an active part of the scene, which I haven't been so far. It's certainly not something I'd be against doing.  | ||
| 29 Jan 10, 11:29 AM BarbieSlutLoki UK(E), 6 yrs |
I only ever have women hitting on me when they're drunk, so whilst the opportunity for a one night stand is fairly frequent it would feel too shallow for me to be bothered Technically I have had two one night stands in my life, one went on to last 16 years (so it was rather a long night) and the other involved two nympho lesbian policeman and me dressed as a schoolgirl where things got rather depraved but fun, and well I was being exeptionally slutty Maybe it's me but the longer I'm celibate the more excuses I make for not wanting to sleep with someone, I think deep down I really more want to be loved than anything But casual play in BDSM clubs, I'll admit to being a complete slut and I do really enjoy it and its a lot more than scratching an itch, well one has to let your hair down sometimes The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club... Edited 29 Jan 10, 11:30 AM by BarbieSlutLoki | ||
| 29 Jan 10, 1:46 PM titchfield UK(CF), 6 yrs |
I'm not opposed to casual play but I think if I were meeting people who wanted to play with me and vice versa then it'd be less likely that I'd be single in the first place. I'd definitely prefer a relationship. I'm not all that interested in separating the play from sex either. | ||
| 29 Jan 10, 2:40 PM Romper 4 yrs |
Getting my kinky needs met, well I have started going out and doing my best to have some play at clubs, but mostly am trying to make friends as well as have some play, as play is only fun to me if I know the person, as such I don't really do one night stands as I am looking for more meaningful connections that I don't get from one night stands, and I really don't enjoy vanilla so it kinda scratches an itch a little bit but is not quite the same is it. You are now breathing manually Edited 29 Jan 10, 2:41 PM by Romper | ||
| 3 Feb 10, 8:30 PM abbey7uk UK(GL), 7 yrs |
I've never had a regular play partner, let alone a relationship that filled my needs. I do think it's something of a pipe dream for me, after all I've been around on the scene for over a decade now. I only get casual play, although I have noticed some possibilities for playing more regularly of late, so who knows? Maybe something will happen, experience shows that you never get exactly what you think you want but somtimes it's even better. I've never gone for a vsanilla one night stand, just not me, there's got to be something more to excite me in the first place. Toodle pip Abbey Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO-HOO, what a ride!!" | ||
| 7 Feb 10, 1:09 PM kinkyprinceofwales UK(CF), 3 yrs |
Well been on the scene a year now and have met some really nice people,but to form a relationship with someone on the fetish scene seems very hard for most people iv spoken to,really dont understand why it is to be honest,but i think fetish play gets better with people who get to know each other better and over time you get to know how each other ticks and to press there kinks to the max.But sadly so many people get married to women or men or are just in a relationship on a vanilla basis and then have to pay to go and visit Mistresses or Masters as they are to scared to tell there loved one of there kinky ways,im not against anyone going to visit pro-doms but i really think they would have much more fun withing there relationship with there partner if there lucky to have a partner who is also into the fetish scene also. Please get in contact if you would like to have a chat and get to know each other better, |
