This post is on the Website help web board.
| Sun 15 Nov 09, 3:00 PM KandiCat 3 yrs |
Is this all part of the new layout? I just look at M4f and had to check back twice to see I was on the right page. I too don't seem to have the main page anymore .. it comes up as my subscriptions, which is curious since I don't have any! Are these things supposed to be "improvements" I wonder? Dance like no-one is looking, love like you've never been hurt. | ||
| 15 Nov 09, 3:15 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
It's because they have the tags being top or being dom on their profile. Personally I don't find the settings "natural" to use, so people may simply get confused, or you may be getting submissive switches. Quote from the top of the M4f page: These UK advertisers are Male or FtoM, may be interested in being top, may be interested in being dom, and are looking for people who are Female or MtoF This link explains the recent changes. XxX | ||
| 15 Nov 09, 3:43 PM Admin UK, 14 yrs |
Can you list some specific profile names of subs from that page so I can see exactly what you mean. Thanks, Admin Remember: it's only a website | ||
| 15 Nov 09, 6:20 PM Subbenn UK(SW), 3 yrs |
I can see I appear in the list and whilst I'm vaguely interested in being slightly Dom, I really shouldn't be in the M4f list - I'm not looking that hard. Is the only way *not* to appear in the list to rmoeve the being_dom interest fro my profile? | ||
| 15 Nov 09, 6:27 PM Commander_Kwaaab UK(SW), 7 yrs |
I have spoken to a few subs who chat to a bloke , believing him to be dom, and then he mysteriously turns out not to be. Suspect that it is a dearth of mistresses - do sub females find that there aren't many Doms out there?
| ||
| 15 Nov 09, 6:34 PM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs |
Untick the interest box, but leave the on profile box ticked, then people can still see you are interested but you won't come up in the search. | ||
| 15 Nov 09, 6:50 PM Subbenn UK(SW), 3 yrs |
Ah, cool. Reading the page it seems obvious, but clearly a lot of us just tick things anyway! | ||
| 15 Nov 09, 8:15 PM tails18 UK(OX), 2 yrs |
tbh I find the whole system very confusing,
I mean ; M4f, M4m, F4m, F4f, m4F, m4M, f4M, f4F ? why do many,
if you go onto collar me & use there search thingy it is much more intuitive. A simpler way to do it could be, just search options for 1)sexurality (straight, bi, gay) 2)your position (dom, sub, slave) 3)what your looking for (dom, sub, slave) I dono but I personally find it very confusing lol X | ||
| 17 Nov 09, 10:22 PM Trevelyan UK(MK), 4 yrs |
Yeah and what about mtffF or ftmfF or any transgendered persons searching for someone who is also interested in transgendered people, from the quick links there? I think the system is fine as it is.. but I have found that, more significantly, age plays a bigger role because that is something that cannot be changed.. so if you are searching for people, they may not necessarily want to be messaged by someone of your age. A feature for "search only for people who are interested in others of my age" would - perhaps - be very useful and maybe even include an option to block the receiving of messages from "wrongly" aged people.
| ||
| 17 Nov 09, 10:25 PM Flogher UK(RM), 9 yrs |
I have noticed on other sites that people get the gender titles confused. I have not seen so much of it on IC though. Flogher - I cane, I whip, I cuddle | ||
| 17 Nov 09, 11:50 PM Wizard_Birchwand UK(EC), 3 yrs |
Maybe its the same reason why the f4M page comes up full of dommes!
|