First bite of the cherry (10)

Posted by angellover on Fri 6 Nov 09, 8:48 AM to angellover's blog.

Yesterday was a strange day, I have been talking to several people online, one over a couple of days that stated straight off he was an alpha male and it was all or nothing yet had no network, no blogs nothing on his profile yet was quite witty and I enjoyed the chat and I stated I would start to check them out as I don't want to talk to wankersЕ

As a submissive who actually thinks of herself I wanted to find out if this person was genuine as I have seen and know several people who are so not dominant yet state I am an Alpha Dom, they are good with the talk but crap with the walkЕ I asked a few people I know who live in the facility of the location on their profile and got negative reports back so thought 'Е emmm Е I will be careful with this one till I know more.'

Next chat, I asked him if it was him and he said no, so I smiled and thought 'emmm shall I Е?' You know the thoughts from your gut within that says 'Alarm bells, test him test him' So with a cheeky grin and my big mouth I typed УAs I heard, they are a bit of a prat and right up their own arseФ OMG OMG didn't they jump at the bateЕЕ and then the moment of realisation and the thoughts of 'what a wanker!'

However, my night ended talking to a really nice Dom on the phone for several hours. A IC member who is a good friend said I should say hello to him and one of Dom's pictures had such a cheeky smile I sent a one liner. I have read boards with some of his blogs in the past, but never his profile.

Last night I then read a few more of his blogs, they made me smile from within, I got onto the profile and thought 'fook he's a nice man but we're so not suitedЕ he wants skinny and I am fat therefore he won't physically be attracted to me.'

Yet I knew we both needed a friend, me being his sub or he my Dom never came into my mind because I knew he didn't like fat ladies, yet after talking to him I know he is such a really nice man, a refreshing change to a lot I have spoken to Е humble, sensitive, kind Е I started having a trust and respect for a man who is going to be a good friend and who knows whats to be comes to mind.

Edited Fri 6 Nov 09, 8:50 AM by angellover

Replies

6 Nov 09, 9:07 AM Subfemmepet UK(NE), 6 yrs	that is how many a good relationship starts !... that i know from experiance we had a huge distance between us, and age gap, etc, but we met, and the rests history...i hope somthing similar happens for you angellover, you deserve it ! love that grows slowly , is the most enduring, x The road, may be bumpy , but it still leads us to our destination. Love conquers all, and makes the heart come alive
6 Nov 09, 9:13 AM Naughtyness UK, 3 yrs	Well done you. Although I am a Domme I have, in the past, had more than a few submissive males try to "top from the bottom". They think they want to be dominated by a female but actually they just want to be told off like a naughty boy then want sex as it makes their pulse race. I never dominated someone then allowed them to have sex - oh no. I am a caring Domme so I had to be careful not to be taken advantage of. Glad you made enquiries - stay safe. xx I love this wonderful bdsm place. So easy to lose yourself in it with pure enjoyment.
6 Nov 09, 9:15 AM Mz_Lucinda_Doys1 2 yrs	Good luck angllover ... hope things work out for you.
6 Nov 09, 9:19 AM MissLioness UK(LS), 5 yrs	Those kind of friends are extremely important. specioal bonds with special people. I personnaly take these friendships and really honour and stand by them with all of who i am. I try hard through the rough times and enjoy the good times. But never give up. Unless it really is the end of the road. wishes you all the very best and good luck hun hugss lots from us both xxxxxxx AdoringLion
6 Nov 09, 9:34 AM andrewsean UK(CO), 5 yrs	go you!! remember folks......it's only kinky the first time
6 Nov 09, 11:36 AM angellover UK(CM), 3 yrs	It is just a refreshing change to talk to someone that's really human and nice.... God i was getting fed up with some of the wankers. Being off sicks been good as i have met and spoke to a few nice people but trust me their few and far between. The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind
6 Nov 09, 12:15 PM Captmick UK(CO), 7 yrs	you fat? you must have put a lot of weight on since i last saw you.Some of us are built for comfort not speed. take care x
6 Nov 09, 3:30 PM missPowers UK(SE), 4 yrs	the ones who last are the ones who care about the person inside... they're also the ones who don't mind holding your hair back while you're being sick and dress you in your manky dressing gown and slippers before bringing you a warm drink and a box of tissues. hugs you - but not too tight cos I don't want your bloody germs :P missP(redictably magical) Logic only gives a man what he needs, magic gives him what he wants... Whose magic are you?
6 Nov 09, 5:37 PM dreddling 3 yrs	Rock on mate!!!
6 Nov 09, 8:20 PM Big_Friendly_Giant UK(RM), 9 yrs	Angelover I feel your way too sharp to ever have the wool pulled over your eyes. Good luck with the new friend.