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The Value of Virginity? (33)

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6 Nov 09, 3:25 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

Nemi75 wrote:
chartreuse wrote:
Being a virgin is a term for someone who hasn't joined bodies with a partner.

And here was me thinking it referred to someone who hadn't had sex yet.

Lol... I felt in a romantic mood for a change. ;)

"Truth is stranger than fiction."
Q. What are the components of a good dynamic? A. The mutual desire to share ourselves with each other. (If you don't want to share yourself with me, don't offer yourself to me.)

8 Nov 09, 12:23 PM
FairyGirl
UK(YO), 3 yrs

I always imagined that I would lose my virginity when in a long-term relationship with someone. I'm 21 now, and have never had a relationship with anyone. I lose my virginity to my duty manager after a drunken night at 19. He was a decent guy, and I think I did it more for the reaction of colleagues than because I wanted to.

I did attach a meaning to my virginity... But I wasn't too bothered after I'd lost it. I was more bothered that I'd have to find another way of shocking my colleagues.

Looking back, all of these incidents are coming back to me, and showing me that I've always had HPD.

"Nothing saves anyone's life, Sir. It just postpones their death." - Posner , The History Boys.
All it takes for bad English to prevail is for literate people to do nothing.

13 Nov 09, 5:27 PM
Sultan_of_kink
UK(E), 3 yrs

I have to agree with the OP but with the added emphasis about choice over the matter. Sexuality is such a fundamental part of human nature...and it is so right to explore free from inhibitions...I hate all this dogma about what you 'should' do when it comes to sex because it means the decision is devoid of choice. If something feels right, surely its right to do it (subject to normal constraints of consent etc)

Encouraging people to stay virgins is a bit like expecting telling a professional footballer never to train before his first professional match!

Thats my contribution - I will always prefer some filthy minx over a purer than white virgin doll :)

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