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Orgasm Control (2)

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Posted by LousyReputation on Sun 25 Oct 09, 10:11 AM to LousyReputation's blog.

Something that I can't seem to mentally be able to do myself.

I don't know why but I can't bring myself to have one unless it is under the instruction (or knowledge) of another person. It is not a concerted effort to go three weeks without one; it basically just happens.

Whenever I do have one on my own, I tend to go on an orgasm binge and then feel a lot worse mentally for it.

It is very frustrating at times as I can't put my finger on why I feel this way. It could be the fact I have experienced orgasm control from someone else before or it could just be that I am broken!

Very frustrating and needed to get it off my chest. Anyone else know the feeling or have any constructive advice?

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25 Oct 09, 11:04 AM chastehouseboy 2 yrs

InnocentAmateur wrote: Something that I can't seem to mentally be able to do myself. I don't know why but I can't bring myself to have one unless it is under the instruction (or knowledge) of another person. It is not a concerted effort to go three weeks without one; it basically just happens. Whenever I do have one on my own, I tend to go on an orgasm binge and then feel a lot worse mentally for it. It is very frustrating at times as I can't put my finger on why I feel this way. It could be the fact I have experienced orgasm control from someone else before or it could just be that I am broken! Very frustrating and needed to get it off my chest. Anyone else know the feeling or have any constructive advice? Hi, i think i know what your talking about, i came to the conclusion that i was missing / fretting for my previous domme, so by holding myself in chastity it brought back some of the feelings from her training and enabled me to feel some kind of connection to her again, i got comfort from the chastity because she had trained that into me and therefore part of her training remained, also i should add that i was totally in love with her and never wanted to be without her, i dont know if this helps or even makes any sense but thats my understanding of the situation, take care, QDb. why is there only one monopolies and mergers commission ??

25 Oct 09, 11:05 AM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs

I am a bit confused, you can't have an orgasm but when you do you have loads? Seems a bit mutually exclusive. I am going to go with the first though because it happened to me. After a TPE relationship it took me months and months to cum without him telling me to. To get over it I had to stop caring about the orgasm, I had to masturbate for its own sake, to enjoy the sensations. I would have to be satisfied with not cumming and eventually cumming stopped being the goal which finally meant I could cum. We put our own mental blocks on it and we have to get over them. In relation to the binge, I do that on occasion but never feel worse off for it so I can't help there. As twue as words spoken under interrogation.