Posted by kesriel on Thu 22 Oct 09, 1:15 PM to kesriel's blog.
You may be a Master.....but, with the utmost respect, that does not exclude the possibility that there are the occasional times when You behave like a complete and absolute Tosser.....
You may be a Master but that doesn't mean that You're not going to screw up sensationally at times.....
You may be a Master but that doesn't mean that there aren't times when You make incredibly bad decisions that can cause a heart to break a little more.....
You may be a Master but that does not mean that i will continue to be Yours far beyond that time when You have trampled any finer feelings i may have for You beneath the weight of Your ego....
i may only be a slave.....but that doesn't mean that i do not have the strength to walk away from You......
i may only be a slave.......but that doesn't exclude me from recognising that.
You may be a Master.......but You fall in love just as deeply as i.....
You may be a Master.......but You are still capable of recognising my intelligence and pride....
You may be a Master......but You still feel the same hurts and anxieties as i......
You may be a Master......but there are times when You must find the strength to ask me to hold You.....
You may be a Master......and desire, want, command, order, demand many many things of me.
i may be a slave...........but i ask only one thing of You........love me.
You may be a Master......but You need me to love You.......i may only be a slave......but i have the strength to do so..........Do not take that for granted......
You may be a Master.........i may only be a slave.........but i can make You happy....
now stop f**king up.......and let me......
with much respect....."just" a slave.
| 22 Oct 09, 1:31 PM The_Colonel_Whatwhat 3 yrs  |
"only a slave"? When did that role become the lesser one? Come to think of it why would a Master be superior?
Meh maybe I just don't get this M/s malarky. I'll stick to being.. me I came, I saw, I concurred | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 1:39 PM kesriel 7 yrs |
wise words dear Colonel | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 1:52 PM rebel_angel UK(RM), 4 yrs    |
Very moving words Kes. x Life is a game, it just depends how you play it. | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 2:21 PM Sunhillow 7 yrs |
Ah yes, the old 'Domly pride' and false belief that allowing your sub/slave to comfort you emotionally makes you less of a Dom/Master... which is, of course, complete tosh!
Oh and kes, I love the way you even capitalised the word 'Tosser' ~ If you must pick the lesser of two evils; choose the one you've never tried before. ~ | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 2:22 PM Tarqs_1 2 yrs |
Lesser role perhaps not, lesser person certainly not, lesser status in the relationship in relation to the Dom? Is that not ultimately what the Dynamic of a D/s relationship means? It's a long ride, it's a fast ride, if ya fall off it's your last ride, so open your knees and feel the breeze!1 | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 2:59 PM The_Colonel_Whatwhat 3 yrs |
Lesser status? Good grief no. Not for me it isn't. I think of it as Leader and Follower, Director and Actor. Both need each other.
Oh well, each to his own
I came, I saw, I concurred | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 3:03 PM kesriel 7 yrs |
*giggles*.....well...i had to....i mean it would have been disrespectful of me not to... | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 3:03 PM Tarqs_1 2 yrs |
So on that basis do you feel that a General carries the same status within the Army as a Private?
It's a long ride, it's a fast ride, if ya fall off it's your last ride, so open your knees and feel the breeze!1 | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 3:04 PM The_Colonel_Whatwhat 3 yrs |
No. They are often viewed as inferior
I came, I saw, I concurred | ||||
| 22 Oct 09, 3:35 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
Thats not what it is to me, indeed I think that attitude is a rather dangerous one. At the moment there is a thread about whether you can 'hurt' the person you love. It seems to me a basic misunderstanding of what it means to be a submissive. I am not a submissive because I am altruistic, would be nice to claim that though. I am a submissive because it makes me happy, it is how I feel comfortable in a relationship, I get pleasure from that position and my pleasure is equally as important as any partners. Its not a lower status, it is getting enjoyment from a different thing which just so happens to coincide with what a dominant gets enjoyment from. Lush that. As twue as words spoken under interrogation. |
