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| Thu 15 Oct 09, 4:25 PM salopsub78 UK(WV), 5 yrs   |
Hi All,
Has anyone heard what had happened to Mistress Lady Nicole from Chester? Both her web site and email address no longer work If she has left the industry, I really hope everything works out for her, whatever the future holds.
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| 15 Oct 09, 7:47 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs    |
Afraid not... “During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell | ||
| 15 Oct 09, 9:20 PM Susan_Williams UK(CH), 2 yrs |
If you find out let me know. The last I heard was an Email from her was just before she went on holiday in August, then nothing. I have a feeling she may well have retired. I do hope she is well as she is really special to me. Susan Williams | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 11:44 AM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs |
You have what is termed an assymetric relationship. If she cared about you as much as you cared about her she would have let you know what she was up to. Science, the only religion that works even if you don't believe in it. | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 12:11 PM Rhoobarb UK(FK), 11 yrs |
Are any relationships NOT asymmetric? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 12:49 PM Miss_Despotic UK(M), 4 yrs    |
I'd like to think so | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 1:23 PM Susan_Williams UK(CH), 2 yrs |
Are not all D/s relationships asymmetric? Susan Williams | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 1:27 PM Miss_Despotic UK(M), 4 yrs |
Perhaps in terms of roles, but that doesn't have to equate in terms of emotions | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 1:33 PM overlap UK(CF), 7 yrs |
Not in the sense that bohnanza used. Most relationships are symbiotic to some extent. Even celebrities who have a very asymmetric relationship with their fans will announce their retirements rather than trying to disappear like Reginald Perrin. Anyone who disappoints their friends/acquaintances/clients without so much as a "So long, and thanks for all the fish" didn't deserve any esteem or affection. Reason is and ought to be the slave of the passions and can never pretend to any other office than to serve and obey them. | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 1:34 PM condemned UK(M), 11 yrs  |
People do tend to come and go in the scene often without warning. The lady in question being a pro Domme, i would have hoped she would have told her regular clients she was leaving the scene so they would not worry about her welfare. Sometimes on boards such as this often regular contributors suddenly just disappear without warning and leave behind a number of worried people. I am not saying this is the case in this instance but if someone who is single dies suddenly then probably we will never know.On the friends reunited website an old school friend contacted me and told me he had sent a message to a female we used to be at school with.I had to inform him that she had sadly passed away,something i myself only found out after a chance encounter with an old school mate who had kept in touch with her in real life.As no one had informed the website her profile was still active. | ||
| 16 Oct 09, 1:50 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs |
As an example of asymmetry: Sub's understanding: My mistress gives me what I want, when I want it, as a show of thanks I give her some money. Dom's understanding: Blimey he is demanding, I wouldn't go near him if he wasn't paying, he does come often so I will carry on smiling and pretend he is a friend. Science, the only religion that works even if you don't believe in it. |
