What weird Hard Limits do you have?? (94)

The number of times I've had to explain to well-meaning folks at fetish nights that no I really don't want a foot massage no matter how good a masseur you claim to be - it is just incomprehensible to some folk how extreme a limit it is for me.

My other hard limit (obscure to many, though there is a logic behind it) is that I will not made to be eat meat or fish, and whilst I'm at it, don't go forcing me to sniff leather or put leather in my mouth (please - see I'm still polite ). I am a vegetarian (ok I'll admit I'm worse than that, I'm a vegan). Whilst I understand other people's fascination with leather, I have no desire at all to wear it, let alone have it put in my mouth. My compromise with my Dom is that I will allow him to use leather hitty things on me and leather cuffs, but he understands my absolute aversion to them, so where possible I'll buy/provide a non-leather equivalent, and given my obsession with the smell of certain plastics, he knows how easily I drift off into a happy place when his rubber flogger comes out to play... Anyway I digress...

And as for music to kill a scene (since I need a not so serious hard limit), I concur about Coldplay, but would like to add Green Jelly and Dido to songs to never be played whilst I'm being tortured and tormented. It'll only make me cry.

Take me to bed and rip me apart

Omg! What a pscyho bitch she must be. *shakes head sadly*

:P

Snails....I know someone who goes by the nickname of "Snail". so I have a weird affinity with the snail thing.....

I am exactly the sam go really withdrawn and cry ...bad trigger , bad memories ..tragic past ...

Shout and i turn into a quivering child...pout

submission is permission to be yourself without judgment

Only gesturing with one has reduced me to tears in the past - and that incident really caught me off guard. I know why I react like that but didn't know it was such a strong aversion until it happened.

*shouldn't have to say used in a kinky context, but just in case some silly comments are made, yes I can cook with them, wash up with them, and even put them in my mouth - preferably with some yummy food on though

Take me to bed and rip me apart

He told me to sing 'We're Going to the Zoo'. I couldn't do it!

I also couldn't drink a glass of tepid milk when told to no matter how much I was threatened. Ugh, I can still remember the taste and it makes my stomach heave just thinking about it!

"Don't Dream It - Be It" - The Rocky Horror Show 1973

is that a such strange hard limit though?

I would consider that a predictable one in terms of how I can think of a number of people who embrace bdsm as a sexual thing but don't wish to engage in things that are that explicitly sexual as part of a bdsm scene

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice xx

Unfortunately a lot of women *do* want to engage in sexual acts but are paranoid about having oral performed on them because of things like rude ex partners, or fear of smelling strange, or loss of control or that it's a submissive act.

concupiscent cunt

agreed...lots of woman do lots of women don't tis all good

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice xx

Yeah, shouting represents a loss of control so as well as being potentially unsettling, it's not as effective as a dominant who's in control and able to say the most powerful things in the quietest of whispers

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice xx