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| jules9 |
OK, I hope that I'm not going to end up in trouble for this, but I was wondering if anyone can give me some hints and tips for how to make sex easier - less painful with a "bigger man"? Namely positions that you have found more comfortable.
The main problem seems to be girth, although I can imagine in different positions length may also be an issue, but girth is the one I really need help with.
I've had a look online, but only really found hints and tips for how to deal with length as an issue.
Any ideas or suggestions would be very gratefully received.
One of my biggest kinks is rape play - and it's something I really want to try!!! Yet I can't currently manage normal sex without pain, although to be fair it does ease off after a while as pleasure starts taking over 
XxX
| 13 Oct 09, 4:08 PM hollythedolly UK(NN), 2 yrs   |
Jules now your just showing off. | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:10 PM xXx_scarlet_xXx UK, 4 yrs |
You lube up, breathe breathe breathe and afterwards you say thank you to him and to the Lord. (º•.¸(¨*•.¸¸.•*¨)¸.•º) «.•°•. Scarlet .•°•.» (¸.•º(¸.•¨**¨•.¸)º•.¸) | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:13 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs    |
I knew someone would respond like this!!!
I initially thought it may just be a reaction to it the first time, but actually on shag number three (now I *am* starting to show off XxX | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:14 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Ha ha - quite, the first time I thought I was going to be split in two!!! XxX | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:16 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
LMAO - I've caught a glimpse of you and not on your life!!! I feel sorry for lima... Poor woman must have started doing John Wayne impersonations!!! XxX
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| 13 Oct 09, 4:16 PM hollythedolly UK(NN), 2 yrs |
He is 2 years older than me.Old man ha I hope he rips you apart for that comment. | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:16 PM Mimi_69 UK(M), 4 yrs |
My goodness lady! i think you got the cream, the cake and the spoon!!! lots and lots of looobe. bite me... please? | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:17 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
The whole point of this post is that I'm scared he is going to do just that!!! XxX | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:18 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Does lube really make a difference? I mean I was COMPLETELY drenched - it certainly wouldn't have made me any wetter... XxX | |
| 13 Oct 09, 4:25 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Yes, but women also get torn during childbirth. I was avoiding trying to be so graphic, but the problem with me is probably the entrance to my pussy. The last time I had a sti check, she used the smallest opening thingy (check out my severe lack of med play!!) and that still tore me and left me bleeding and sore for a couple of days.
So it's a combination, he's huge and I'm small... I get the impression that strangely enough it's a combination that he likes... even more strangely, I'm not so keen!!! I know there will be loads of couples who have this problem and found ways around it. Help is needed!!! XxX |
- especially as he's such an old man 
I *may* live to regret that one..) it still hurt just as much to begin with...