Introductions! (55)

mitch

When it comes to trans, however, i have a very definite, very personal interest...having started to transition this year, and also having now come out to pretty much everyone i count as a friend. Oh - but apologies to anyone here i didn't tell. Oversight. Not delberate omission.

Not looking for much, beyond friendship an occasionl chat.

if you want a bit more background on me, i have a blog here:

janefae.wordpress.com

all the best,

jane

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Just to keep things simple,i will use the name by which i am known on other boards. I am here as a person who suffers from GID-i have had psychological assesments. At present,i have fallen foul of the two year rule.

I can not hide the way i feel-at heart i am female. I will not go on about this,as i have already posted my thoughts on the subject.

If any members want to send memos then please do. I have many interests outside of BDSM.

PLEASE NOTE I AM ON HERE AS A TV/TS NOT AS A PD.

In case you can't read profiles I'm Abbey lol.

I hate lables so it's no wonder I don't find one to fit.

I guess I'm a cock in a frock rfol!

I've been around for ages on the scene, always been kinky, always worn clothing of the oposite sex from my body.

Don't want a sex change, don't fancy anyone with a dick.

Happy to be anyone's friend who isn't up thier own arse though, whatever thier own persusion on life is.

Toodle pip Abbey

Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - rope in one hand - violet wand in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO-HOO, what a ride!!"

I don't really like labels. I'm not sure that felt or expressed gender has much to do with biological gender. Or that gender, is as related to who you fancy, as is implied by so much media and hype. Sometimes I think gender is just a construct, that does not serve us well, because we all have both so called "feminine" and "masculine" aspects. Sometimes it good to leave gender aside, and just be. I perceive from this post that a lot of members feel something like that.

Personally I acquired a lot of male behaviour, attitudes and interests as a child. I was very uncomfortable with the lot of women in society, and my options as a woman. Then I spent my early adulthood finding my female side and becoming proud of the woman I can be. Now I tend to focus on being the best being I can, regardless of gender stereotypes. I'm attracted to people of both and other gender's. Who a person is is far more important than the gender.

As a psychotherapist I'm interested in helping people be free of pain and worry about their gender, able to express themselves congruently and confidently in the world, and achieve their life-goals.

The Counsellor Kink Friendly Counselling and Therapy Let me help you to be the best you that you can be

Edited 4 Mar 10, 7:06 PM by The_Counsellor

Then I mess with people's brains by getting the lipstick out again now and then because it's fun. And honestly I'm not a goth .

I see gender as something fluid, not absolute. I'm not absolutely man, just mostly. I'm a weird little bundle of gorgeousness and contradictions. With teeth.

What? ... A sub can't be a lady?
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