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| 23 Sep 09, 11:28 AM ladyjayne 8 yrs  |
I add to this... make sure your aware of the risks for EVERYTHING you do. Don't fall into the trap of believing that as a submissive you can lay back and place everything in the hands of another, ultimately the only person who has full responsibility for yourself is you, if it doesn't feel/sound/seem right, say so, because the only person who can say it is right is you! "that artwork is rather dark" "well yes, I wasn't exactly expecting winnie the pooh!" | ||
| 23 Sep 09, 11:35 AM Betony UK, 7 yrs  |
The best piece of advice I had was be patient (something quite difficult for me!) | ||
| 23 Sep 09, 11:41 AM princessl8tex UK(OL), 5 yrs |
My advice is simple. Dont lie about who or what you are to yourself. That will tear you apart as i found out. Happily taken by the wonderfull Daneswood. | ||
| 23 Sep 09, 3:13 PM Aumentou UK(S), 2 yrs |
The same I give to everyone: Listen to the works of Twisted Sister. Then rock!
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| 23 Sep 09, 3:26 PM houseproudest UK(SE), 4 yrs |
whistle in the dark i made this | ||
| 23 Sep 09, 6:52 PM furry_catgirl UK(CT), 3 yrs |
boil them first.... we are never free until we are ALL free | ||
| 24 Sep 09, 12:42 AM misfit UK, 3 yrs |
Sounds good to me and one especially for the clubs and one I find offensive if not adhered to, do not touch without permission. It is disrespectful and can lead to others' being tarred with the same metaphorical brush which I find frustrating. Best M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. | ||
| 24 Sep 09, 12:45 AM misfit UK, 3 yrs |
Quite apt for here: Tell me not to play Well, all I got to say to you when you tell me not to play, I say, "No!" No! No, No, No, No, No! Best M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. | ||
| 24 Sep 09, 5:18 AM inappropriate  UK(CF), 3 yrs |
If possible get to know other women in your area (munches are a good way to do this). If you are in any way unsure about how safe a potential play partner/date etc is, ask them! If there is any negative gossip about this person, you'll find out! Also, as many other people have said, don't do anything you don't want to do. It's totally fine to hesitate if you're unsure, and if the person is interested in you as a person (as opposed to you as someone, anyone, available to play with), they'll be OK with that - and if they're not, someone else will be along soon enough!
Good luck, and finally, make sure you're enjoying yourself Come to the Cardiff fish and chips munch | ||
| 24 Sep 09, 12:02 PM AlexCobra UK(WC), 6 yrs |
I've been perving like a trooper for ages and I've been over this thread a couple of times - excellent OP and gives all of us a chance to pick up some really sound stuff. Ta! Yours twooly, |
