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| Degenerate |
on Wed 16 Sep 09, 2:31 PM to Degenerate's blog.
Edited Wed 16 Sep 09, 4:11 PM by Degenerate
| 16 Sep 09, 2:39 PM Ima_Kant UK(PO), 3 yrs  |
God... how heartbreaking! | |
| 16 Sep 09, 2:46 PM doctorgas UK, 5 yrs |
De, you have a wonderful way with words. | |
| 16 Sep 09, 3:13 PM x_ele_x UK, 3 yrs |
That's heart breaking, sending you a hug xx | |
| 16 Sep 09, 3:33 PM Soxxees1 UK(CO), 9 yrs |
I was having a bad day anyway ....now Im crying | |
| 16 Sep 09, 3:53 PM Degenerate UK(M), 5 yrs   |
Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk Edited 16 Sep 09, 3:54 PM by Degenerate | |
| 16 Sep 09, 3:58 PM socair UK, 6 yrs |
Oh De that is so sad. If you knew for sure where he was it would be easier for you no doubt. It's almost impossible to grieve fully while maintaining some hope. Say goodbye in your own time and at a pace that suits you. A big hug to you and hope that you find a resolution which brings you peace xxx "Character, like a photograph, develops in darkness". | |
| 16 Sep 09, 3:58 PM mrs_whipkick UK(CB), 8 yrs |
I can't think of anything worse than know knowing either way, I really feel for you, it must be so hard,
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| 16 Sep 09, 4:45 PM Snowpard 4 yrs |
Sending love and warmth, made me cry too but please don't hide this blog. Due to having similar situations this blog gives me some comfort, not in the fact that someone else is having similar pains but because I'm reading a familiar pain, your words help me to break it down a little. I'm trying to do the same too, to some extent. Maybe one day we'll either find them again or finally say that awful word. I can't help but wonder if it's better that I don't -- if I'm not meant to see them again and just move on, maybe there's a reason why we're not seeing these people again. Perhaps we think we want to see them again but there's something we can't see, a good reason why we shouldn't see them again? I don't know your situation so I'm not saying that this is what it is or isn't, just chucking thoughts that I have thought about mine incase they're any consolation. If there's no good reason why you both should never meet again, I really hope you find him again. I'll add you to my prayers along with mine on the similar situation too. Threads are like skirts. They should be long enough to cover the interesting details, but short enough to keep things interesting. | |
| 16 Sep 09, 5:22 PM Vampire_bunny 3 yrs |
I don't know what to say, apart from that I feel for you. I do hope one day you're able to find the answers you are looking for. And if not....I guess I hope one day you are able to say goodbye. If he did die, then at least he died knowing you care about him. | |
| 16 Sep 09, 6:11 PM Degenerate UK(M), 5 yrs |
Thank you all so much for your kind words and the memos I have had. Water has been leaking from my eyes, and everything. Pah. It's such a pain to know what to do. I do not know he will never reappear. But the evidence is pretty strong that he won't.  De Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk |
