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One dimensional (8)

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LilLass
Posted by LilLass on Mon 24 Aug 09, 9:51 PM to LilLass's blog.

I've been told I am one dimensional.

:(

Whilst the comment rather hurt I can see it from the observers point of view.

If you are into many aspects of BDSM I suppose seeing a profile dedicated almost exclusively to bondage can appear less than appealing.

Replies

24 Aug 09, 10:04 PM
MzStardust
UK, 2 yrs
Your profile states clearly what it is that you require and are looking for. You have been straight to the point and saved yourself a lot of time and hassle writing out over and over again what it is you want/don't want in private memo.

You will never please everyone all of the time so the best thing to do.. is just please yourself. The rest will fall into place eventually :-)

24 Aug 09, 10:14 PM
PearlBlueSoul
UK(EC), 2 yrs

Women often tell me that they get branded as 'demanding' or 'stubborn' by dominant men, for their profiles.

If that's indeed true, I've no idea how on fucking Earth these supposedly dominant men manage to get out of bed in the mornings.

"What?! I've actually got to *open* this carton of milk?? AND THEN POUR IT? How demanding can you get?!?"

I think by 'demanding' they usually mean 'specific', but don't tell them I said that, OK? They'll only end up branding me a 'wanker', or something equally drama queeny. D/s is such a sitcom, it really is.

24 Aug 09, 10:17 PM
LilLass
UK, 3 yrs
PearlBlueSoul wrote:
I think by 'demanding' they usually mean 'specific', but don't tell them I said that, OK?

Ummmmmmm... ;)

24 Aug 09, 10:20 PM
LilLass
UK, 3 yrs
MzStardust wrote:
You will never please everyone all of the time...

So very true. I guess it's not worth sweating the small stuff.

24 Aug 09, 11:14 PM
Betony
UK, 7 yrs
LilLass wrote:
I've been told I am one dimensional.

:(

Whilst the comment rather hurt I can see it from the observers point of view.

If you are into many aspects of BDSM I suppose seeing a profile dedicated almost exclusively to bondage can appear less than appealing.

Whoever told you that doesn't know the definition of one dimensional.....don't take any notice.

25 Aug 09, 12:30 AM
beestinglips
4 yrs
PearlBlueSoul wrote:
D/s is such a sitcom, it really is.

I bags Terry and June.

The Devil made me do it (again).

25 Aug 09, 6:05 AM
PearlBlueSoul
UK(EC), 2 yrs

beestinglips wrote:
I bags Terry and June.

I always suspected they were into breathplay.

25 Aug 09, 10:21 AM
Grownup_Frankie
UK, 4 yrs
We work out what we like, usually, by a process of elimination - by discovering what we don't like.

And whats wrong with making a conscious choice to just do what we like, once we know what that is?

Where is the wisdom in doing what we DON'T like, just to please other people?

Yet I rejoice in the great harm done me, for this reason only, that I am more mine being yours, than were I mine ~ Michelangelo, 1534

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