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50 years in the scene (96)

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Fri 14 Aug 09, 9:38 AM
jongee
UK(NR), 10 yrs
I have now been in the BDSM scene for over fifty years. When I was at boarding school around the age of seven I had a schoolboy crush on one of the teachers, Miss Carter with the purple lipstick. One day I was caned in front of her by the school's headmaster and had the first erection I can remember. Then when I was 20 and in the RAF I went to a high class Brothel in Dusseldorff where over many visits frauline Edith brought me into the world of S & M.

On leaving the forces I started my own company which took me for the next fifty happy years all round the country. Over the course of these years I have visited literally hundred of Mistresses. Most visits were wonderful, and some I went back to many times on a regular basis. Twice I was robbed ( when tied up my wallet was emptied ) and once I went to see a so called Domme who advertised lots of toys - which turned out to be a piece of rope a pair of handcuffs and a cane. I ask you !

At the very top of my list would be Mistress Anna of Liverpool in the 80s -90s all the others would be in no particular order:-

Mistress Paula Birmingham - Mistress Dee Birmingham - Mistress Nemisis Leeds - Mistress Annette Totnes - Mistress Ellen Mayfair - Mistress Angela Grimsby - Mistress Kitty Lincoln - Mistress Sasha Olympia - TV Mistress Terri Manchester - Mistress Tina Birmingham - Mistress Sonia Earls Court - Mistress June Sheffield -

Most will have retired by now or gone to that big dungeon in the sky - where who knows I might meet them again.

I wish somebody would start a 'Where are they Now ?' section.

Edited Sat 15 Aug 09, 9:17 AM by jongee

14 Aug 09, 9:41 AM
Mistress_Avralivia
UK(RG), 4 yrs
£
jongee wrote:
50 years in the scene

I wish somebody would start a 'Where are they Now ?' section.

I think that's what you just did ;)

"You're going to massage me, but first I'm going to bind you"

14 Aug 09, 9:53 AM
Lady_Anna_Bradford
UK(BD), 5 yrs

Mistress Paula of Birmingham is currently enjoying her recent retirement.

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14 Aug 09, 5:42 PM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs

jongee wrote:
50 years in the scene

I have now been in the BDSM scene for over fifty years. When I was at boarding school around the age of seven I had a schoolboy crush on one of the teachers, Miss Carter with the purple lipstick. One day I was caned in front of her by the school's headmaster and had the first erection I can remember. Then when I was 20 and in the RAF I went to a high class Brothel in Dusseldorff where over many visits frauline Edith brought me into the world of S & M.

On leaving the forces I started my own company which took me for the next fifty happy years all round the country. Over the course of these years I have visited literally hundred of Mistresses. Most visits were wonderful, and some I went back to many times on a regular basis. Twice I was robbed ( when tied up my wallet was emptied ) and once I went to see a so called Domme who advertised lots of toys - which turned out to be a piece of rope a pair of handcuffs and a cane. I ask you !

At the very top of my list would be Mistress Anna of Liverpool in the 80s -90s all the others would be in no particular order:-

Mistress Paula Birmingham - Mistress Dee Birmingham - Mistress Nemisis Leeds - Mistress Annette Totnes - Mistress Ellen Mayfair - Mistress Angela Grimsby - Mistress Kitty Lincoln TV Mistress Terri Manchester - Mistress Tina Birmingham - Mistress Sonia Earls Court - Mistress June Sheffield -

Most will have retired by now or gone to that big dungeon in the sky - where who knows I might meet them again.

I wish somebody would start a 'Where are they Now ?' section.

Wow! And I thought I was old.

"Red hair and black leather is my favourite colour scheme" - Richard Thompson

14 Aug 09, 6:44 PM
cough_cough
UK(W), 4 yrs
£
For me, it would be amazing for these women to be interviewed and their experiences compiled into a book.

There is so little out there on the lives of mature and/or retired sex workers. I wonder what happens to escorts, strippers, dommes etc. in their 'twilight years'? Of course, life moves on, they may have also moved on and not want the publicity, and if that is the case, there is always the possibility of having those accounts recorded anonymously.

I bet these amazing women, who pursued such an interesting career/lifestyle choices..... could tell a tale or two;)

"It's not what people say, but what they DO that counts"

14 Aug 09, 6:51 PM
KinkyKumbrian
UK(CA), 3 yrs

Now this is really what I like to see on here, someone telling us his experiences from the days when BDSM wasn't a couple of mouse clicks and a phone call away. This has to make my week what Jongee has posted and makes such a change from the negative anti PD posts that appear on here. I wonder if he would be able to tell us more and how sessions were arranged in the pre internet era and possibly the less liberal era before the seventies when dommes must have been hard to find and to advertise their services.

Also I wonder among the dommes he visited if he ever visited veteran caner and slipperer Auntie Jennifer who ended her days in Cumbria( previously she was on the South Coast) before retiring.

14 Aug 09, 7:47 PM
MistressRouge
UK(B), 6 yrs
£
Mistress Paula, is a very good friend of mine, I am actually seeing her next week for coffee and a chinwag :)

She still sees her regulars now and then, but enjoying being a Lady of leisure :*

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14 Aug 09, 8:23 PM
KinkyKumbrian
UK(CA), 3 yrs

MistressRouge wrote:
Mistress Paula, is a very good friend of mine, I am actually seeing her next week for coffee and a chinwag :)

She still sees her regulars now and then, but enjoying being a Lady of leisure :*

Hello, Mistress Rouge, like that photo. Do you train in martial arts, out of interest?

15 Aug 09, 2:40 PM
KinkyKumbrian
UK(CA), 3 yrs

jongee wrote:
In my early years just before the Wolfenden report came out - In London the ladies of the night in Mayfair and Soho were often beautifully turned out ( some in furs ) and could be seen in most door ways. You could easily tell which of them was in the scene by their clothes and ultra high heels. Then when it all went Underground your had to go to certain notice boards in shop windows where cards would be placed saying things like 'Young School Teacher looking for new pupils' or 'Strict Massage 'etc etc. So well before the internet came along and made things very easy,there were also some very specialist contact magazines.

The first I saw of BDSM were the personal adverts in the Sunday Sport in 1987 with women advertising themseleves as mistress, headmistress and the like usually cradling a whip or a cane. A year later I did receive my first experience as a student in Sheffield when a girl I knew decided to give me twenty strokes of her crop one night. However, like you say, pre internet it was all contact magazines, adverts in Soho doorways and, of course, the calling card in the phone box.

15 Aug 09, 5:57 PM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs

jongee wrote:
In my early years just before the Wolfenden report came out - In London the ladies of the night in Mayfair and Soho were often beautifully turned out ( some in furs ) and could be seen in most door ways. You could easily tell which of them was in the scene by their clothes and ultra high heels. Then when it all went Underground your had to go to certain notice boards in shop windows where cards would be placed saying things like 'Young School Teacher looking for new pupils' or 'Strict Massage 'etc etc. So well before the internet came along and made things very easy,there were also some very specialist contact magazines.

For us who were poor we could only admire these lovely ladies from afar but there were always the contact magazines which worked remarkably well.

"Red hair and black leather is my favourite colour scheme" - Richard Thompson

15 Aug 09, 7:55 PM
KinkyKumbrian
UK(CA), 3 yrs

redgerbil wrote:
jongee wrote:
In my early years just before the Wolfenden report came out - In London the ladies of the night in Mayfair and Soho were often beautifully turned out ( some in furs ) and could be seen in most door ways. You could easily tell which of them was in the scene by their clothes and ultra high heels. Then when it all went Underground your had to go to certain notice boards in shop windows where cards would be placed saying things like 'Young School Teacher looking for new pupils' or 'Strict Massage 'etc etc. So well before the internet came along and made things very easy,there were also some very specialist contact magazines.

For us who were poor we could only admire these lovely ladies from afar but there were always the contact magazines which worked remarkably well.

Or the cards in phone boxes advertising Mistress X

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