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| 30 Jul 09, 7:47 PM Slavebinder UK(PE), 6 yrs  |
I must admit when I see attractive women in my working life I wonder what they would say if they knew I had thought about them as a submissive in a D/s scenario. Intriguing to wonder if they would smile or completely freak out. | ||
| 30 Jul 09, 8:07 PM Glovepuppet UK(GL), 3 yrs  |
Very much so. My best friends that are a couple are vanilla but very Domme/sub. He knows exactly what she expects of their relationship and is very devoted without being hen pecked. I've seen him thrive through being with such a strong woman. She plays to his fetishes as rewards and he respects her for that. They are one of the healthiest couples (in my opinion) because they have very clear roles. Obviously the key to any relationship vanilla or kinky is communication and I'm picking up on a good relationship more than I'm picking up on anything else. But most of my friends have been somewhat categorised, it makes for the most interesting gossip with Lobsterboy. As you wish | ||
| 30 Jul 09, 8:14 PM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
No, I've been corrupted! Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/ | ||
| 31 Jul 09, 6:23 PM avantgarden 3 yrs |
I played mixed couples tennis the other day where if my male opponent wasn't a dominant then I'll eat my metaphorical hat. He barked commands the whole time at someone who is otherwise a complete bitch on the court when you play her alone, but in this context, just meekly accepted every command and beamed each time he praised her game. So, he was either a dominant or a cunt of a misogynist. Either way - fun game. | ||
| 31 Jul 09, 6:32 PM jen001 UK(HD), 8 yrs |
when i saw the title "bdsm glasses" i thought it was a kind of "beer goggles" type post...i had some funny stuff to put...but alas it was not i have my bdsm glasses firmly off these days... j xx KINKY 4 U - Saturday 1st August - kinkyinleeds.co.uk | ||
| 3 Aug 09, 1:22 AM Fire_Fox UK(DD), 3 yrs |
If you've got some funny stuff to put up then please go right ahead.
The world needs more fun and laughter and if you've got something that makes even one other person smile then you're time has been well spent. Mind what people do, not only what they say for deeds will betray a lie. | ||
| 25 Aug 09, 1:12 PM tiggerGlasgow UK(EH), 6 yrs |
I think I definitely look at people in a different light. I'm better at reading body language than I used to be. I do also assess people on how likely they'd be to drop me from their social circles like a hot brick if they found out I was kinky. It doesn't change how likely I am to become friends with that person, but it does change how close that friendship is likely to be. I do it when people spotting as well, for something else to try and guess about people as you watch them walk past. "A life without pain has no meaning" Athrur Schopenhauer | ||
| 25 Aug 09, 1:41 PM Manson UK(M), 2 yrs |
I'm still getting used to looking at myself differently, never mind other people  | ||
| 26 Aug 09, 3:42 PM Aumentou UK(S), 2 yrs |
Every time I learn something new it makes me see everything it affects differently: musical training meant I heard things differently, martial arts meant I saw threat levels differently, passing (or failing to) as a woman meant I started noticing the tall girls with the good legs more often, and BDSM made me start looking at clothing and accessories and random objects in all sorts of new ways, as well as giving me something resembling an insight into personal power dynamics (which I was shockingly bad at before). I tend to see the world as a big mishmash of patterns interreacting with one another, and perhaps if I learned enough of them everything in it would make sense. Or perhaps one human brain isn't big enough to cope with all of them. Or perhaps it is, but it would take more than one lifetime to learn. Either way, I think it's important to keep learning new things. | ||
| 26 Aug 09, 3:48 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
yes yes yes yes and yes lol
Isn't it funny that the day we realised we like you was the day you got a pool! |
