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| Degenerate |
on Tue 28 Jul 09, 11:11 AM to Degenerate's blog.
My article now up on the newly launched www.polyamory.org.uk website - thought this subject might be of interest to few of the poly people here.
This is a new site and it is looking for submissions, so if you have something to say or contribute on the theme of UK polyamoury, please get in touch with the webmaster Graham
http://www.polyamory.org.uk/jealousy_clewis.html
De
Edited Tue 28 Jul 09, 12:56 PM by Degenerate
| 28 Jul 09, 11:28 AM polyanna UK(CV), 4 yrs  |
"Sometimes it is a more loving act to let someone go than try to keep them, so they can continue their journey toward their best life." So very true. And hard.
I like your article. Although it's odd to think of you actually having a name "That didn't hurt. That didn't hurt. That didn't hurt. That hurt! (Do it again)" | |
| 28 Jul 09, 11:57 AM Will_and_Echo UK(SW), 4 yrs    |
That is a stonking article De, I loved it! Very down to earth and practical. I personally hear the "we are all open with each other, ergo there is never any jealousy" line *far* too much when it comes to poly and I hate it. It only makes us feel bad for what is an utterly natural (if sometimes irrational) emotion, meaning that people avoid talking about it. So thank you  A close friend actually wrote this yesterday and after poking him to rephrase a few bits (on jealousy in fact), I do think it is a very nice "this is what I do" piece. If you think it might suit a submission, I'm sure he wouldn't mind.
Also, thanks to whoever built this website; it is beautiful and fab to navigate Exx "What you blush to tell", says Venus, "is the most important part of the whole matter" | |
| 28 Jul 09, 5:32 PM shy_sarah UK(M), 4 yrs |
That's a very good read De, thanks for sharing that. Compliance for fun? Hell yes. | |
| 28 Jul 09, 9:02 PM Degenerate UK(M), 4 yrs   |
Ooh I hate my name and I hate seeing it written down. I prefer De (or Dennis), so pretend you never saw it!
Aw yes it;s sad when one has to let someone go who might've liked to be poly
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| 28 Jul 09, 9:03 PM Degenerate UK(M), 4 yrs |
Cheers Echo!
Read your friends article and it made me chuckle, some real home truths in there! Have commented on it and suggested he submits it
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| 28 Jul 09, 9:05 PM Degenerate UK(M), 4 yrs |
Aw thanks Sarah Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk | |
| 28 Jul 09, 10:06 PM boi_Kase UK(B), 4 yrs |
Wow, that was incredibly interesting and informing. Thank you for sharing. I'm glad i came back and happened to click on weblogs! Katy x | |
| 28 Jul 09, 10:36 PM Degenerate UK(M), 4 yrs |
Hi katy, really glad you found it interesting Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk | |
| 30 Jul 09, 11:22 PM pinkylucy UK(M), 9 yrs   |
You are fab, the article is fab and I don't care a jot that I'm biased. It made me feel very lucky to be with such a thoughtful partner and made me think through many occasions when you have used these skills for my benefit (and I few where I've managed it myself - I'm learning! lol) I love you! (and your occasional little jealous outbursts which almost always make me smile which sayd something for how you handle them!) "Don't Dream It - Be It" - The Rocky Horror Show 1973 | |
| 1 Aug 09, 9:51 PM Degenerate UK(M), 4 yrs |
" I am having a possessive moment so I am not going to tell you that XXXXX has a crush on you ok, cos you're mine. *grin-pout-grin* " Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk |
but positive too 