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| Tue 21 Jul 09, 12:18 PM Fire_Fox UK(DD), 3 yrs |
Is/are there any fetishes you know of or have heard of that's made you think “I can't understand how anyone can get pleasure from that”? What other people do to each other is none of my business and I admire people who are brave enough, and imaginative enough to indulge their fetishes. The vast majority of fetishes, even though they aren't my thing I can still see how some would be turned on by it, but there are a few things that I look at and think OMG Nooooooooo way! I was just wondering if anyone else feels the same way. Edited to add - One of mine would be to have a metal spike pushed through my dick and then either be suspended by it or have heavy weights hung off it.
What are some of yours??? Mind what people do, not only what they say for deeds will betray a lie. Edited Tue 21 Jul 09, 12:27 PM by Fire_Fox | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 12:19 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
Every day on this site. Many times day. But I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who think the same about me. www.felicityfatale.co.uk ~ Fun Photography | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 12:22 PM JudyInDsGuise UK(E), 9 yrs |
Nope. Because I get pleasure from my kink my default setting is to assume other people get pleasure from their kink. judy I must be only one in a million (© David Bowie) | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 12:29 PM Mr_Worm UK(BN), 6 yrs |
My initial reaction to a lot of kinks is no way but then the "what if" question begins to gnaw at me. It helps that I'm in a strong relationship and we have no issues about laughing at ourselves (or each other) so some things just end up working and we don't try to analyse why they work and just enjoy it. Pet play is a good example of something that shouldn't have worked but pet shops are now a primary source of pervertibles. Mr Ben play (ie me being dressed in ever more outlandish garb)is another example.
I do think a sense of the absurd goes a long way in this world | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 12:37 PM EnforcedConsent 3 yrs |
I've never seen the attraction of Scat but I guess it's each to their own. Pretty much everything else I can see an attraction to in one form or another. I have no idea what drives someone to want to do that for the first time but I accept that it's some people's kink, and that's ok. This is the funny thing, we have the whole YKIOK motto / mission statement but from what I've seen some people are as fast to judge others from the inside as anyone else is from outside. Sin Like You Mean It! | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 12:56 PM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
Thank god it's not just me then! I used to think that I only had this reaction because I'm impressionable (I'd say innocent but no one would believe that). I think, initially I started off thinking OMG how could anyone possibly want to do that?!?!?!?! and then later started to have fantasies about "that" then later started to talk about it with Master. It helps that He's not judgemental and we are always able to laugh at ourselves, no matter how silly we might look at the time.
Don't take life too seriously, Fab motto!
Danke Schoen, darling Danke Schoen. Thank you for all the joy and pain. | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 1:05 PM felis_silvestris UK(M), 3 yrs |
I wouldn't say impressionable.. more like open minded. I think this can happen a lot, things grow on me and my mind then becomes accustomed to it that's when my imagination begins to kick in. Not with all things but then I guess the more perverted and sadistic I become, the more open minded I'll become to.
If I take you from behind, push myself into your mind When you least expect it, will you try to reject it? Give it up, do as I say; Give it up and let me have my way.. | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 1:22 PM ThedaVamp UK, 6 yrs |
Watched a documentary on top 10 kinks and have to say my eyes were opened, at the same time bile rose in my throat - Licing http://membracid.wordpress.com/2008/03/16/pubic-... Please check your irony levels before attempting to respond to the majority of my posts. | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 1:25 PM Fire_Fox UK(DD), 3 yrs |
That's basically how I look at things too. Since joining this site there are quite a few things that I'd never even thought of trying, and now I love them. Mind what people do, not only what they say for deeds will betray a lie. | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 1:26 PM felis_silvestris UK(M), 3 yrs |
Thankfully, my page was slow in opening and gave me chance to see the title fully... I closed it very quickly!! edited: OK curiosity killed the cat.... YUK!
If I take you from behind, push myself into your mind When you least expect it, will you try to reject it? Give it up, do as I say; Give it up and let me have my way.. Edited 21 Jul 09, 1:29 PM by felis_silvestris | ||
| 21 Jul 09, 1:30 PM skadii UK(W), 5 yrs |
I assume that everyone gets pleasure from their kink or they wouldn't do it - but that's not the same as understanding it. I genuinely don't understand how someone could get turned on by poo. I know people do, and I don't judge them for it, whatever they fancy is fine with me - but it's not something that I'm personally able to connect with eroticism. |