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| Fri 17 Jul 09, 10:32 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Last night Daddy and I went to TownHouse International, it was a fantastic night, but got me thinking. I was wearing a corset, and in it bending is all but impossible, to the point of when I needed the toilet, I had to have Daddy's help. Humiliating in all the right ways, but it would be nice to learn tips from seasoned corset wearers in how to manage general simple tasks. Cheers, Jules XxX | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 10:59 PM morgan_MP UK, 8 yrs |
Hi jules I realise this is not much help, as reading this reminds me of our wedding not 2 andhalf months ago. i wore a corset, steel ribs etc, with the full dress and a full underskirt, just before i went into the room where the marriage took place, i really needed to spend a penny, panic i think!! so myself, in this dress with a bridesmaid, had to pour ourselves into the loo, hitch up all the dress, underskirt and veil, find the loo and then try to be as lady like as possible. if there is one thing i learnt it was,,thank heaven i dont wear knickers or tights!! and if i had advice it is just that, do not wear underwear! morgan_MP Meus dominus fidelis mancipium, semper | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:01 PM Ms_Adventure UK, 3 yrs |
You have to bend at the knees rather than bending your back ..... which is what you should be doing anyway..... | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:02 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
You just get used to it. I have no problems at all in my corset, can do everything I would do day to day. Only thing I can't do is go to the gym. It helps if you are slim in the first place and also flexible I think though as this gives you more mobility in your pelvis and thoracic spine to start with. www.felicityfatale.co.uk ~ Fun Photography | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:04 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Hi morgan_MP, thanks for the advice, but I think I would be in for a major punishment if I went out without panties. Daddy has a big fetish for very big panties - which naturally just makes it that much harder - I was reduced to having to do the "side swipe", that or take the whole corset off.
Maybe it's a size issue, but I find in fully boned corsets I can't bend at all. Not to put on stockings or even to wipe myself - although Daddy did make sure that part was much nicer than going to the bathroom alone! Jules XxX | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:06 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Ha ha, yes I can bend at my knees (just about), but the problem is that I am scared of damaging the bones of the corset by bending too much at the waist, if that makes any sense? XxX | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:08 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Despite my size I am naturally very flexible - it's more the flexibility of the corset - I can imagine bending too much at the waist would force the steel out of shape. The way the corset positions my breasts means that I HAVE to bend at the waist, in order to get over them to reach certain areas.... XxX | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:11 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
You won't bend the corset out of shape if you have it laced properly and spend the majority of the time upright! As a corset is worn more and more it sculpts to you shape and will become more comfortable over time. www.felicityfatale.co.uk ~ Fun Photography | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:12 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Thank you!!!! XxX | ||
| 17 Jul 09, 11:14 PM najaah UK(TA), 6 yrs |
first always put the stockings on before lacing lol.
as to the toilet its all just practice, if the corset is fitted properly and tight you wont damage it unless you are folding yourself in half in which case you are more flexible than me and the corset is not as strong as you would hope lol.
have fun
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| 17 Jul 09, 11:15 PM Spikeyflower UK(E), 4 yrs |
If it's spiral wound steel you can bend it and it will go back to its original shape. Can you reach backwards? Lean one hand on the wall and raise the other leg? |