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Polka_Doll
Posted by Polka_Doll on Wed 15 Jul 09, 5:14 PM to Polka_Doll's blog.

I'm finding out more and more about my submissive personality lately. Delving into the recesses of my mind, searching for the darker side, exploring my kinks and finding it all quite liberating. Hell, thanks to the indiscretion of my ex husband my whole family know about this part of me and whenever someone asks me a question about my kinks (stranger or friend) i am almost painfully honest. So why do I still censor what pictures I'll put on here? Why do I feel the need to keep my blog anonymous? Why if I'm so damned liberated am I still hiding? Hmmm...

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16 Jul 09, 8:57 AM
Backdooruk
UK(BA), 12 yrs
There is a difference between telling someone something and publishing it (as is the case of a blog or profile). It's not simply about discretion, it's about modesty and how 'loud' a person you are or are not. Just because you are open and truthful doesn't mean you have to walk down the street naked.

As for the pictures, well you wouldn't send a stranger a picture of your genitals etc. simply because they asked for them (and if you would, I'll memo you with my email address ;) )?

- Chris

This is my voice, my weapon of choice

Edited 16 Jul 09, 9:09 AM by Backdooruk

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