Posted by ALittleBizarre
on Fri 10 Jul 09, 6:08 PM to ALittleBizarre's blog.
Need advice as to what would make you want to reply to a memo you recieved on here. Any tips on making that initial contact? I'm trying to help a friend write a memo, but as a tomboy that is sitting here smelling of horses with hay in my hair and shavings in my pockets I just don't feel qualified to give advice as to what a girl might want to hear, so please help us out!
Edited to add that I would quite like to know myself, so i might nab myself a pretty little thing without the aid of all my rope!
Edited Fri 10 Jul 09, 6:10 PM by ALittleBizarre
| 10 Jul 09, 6:15 PM Vampire_bunny 3 yrs |
Tell them exactly why you're memoing them and what your intentions are. Friends? date? Tell them why you decided to memo them. What was it about their profile that they liked? flattery, but not too much. Be very very polite! And do say that you would like to have a reply, even if it's just to say thanks but no thanks. And ask any questions that their profile has made you think of! Take an interest. And of course, write a bit about yourself. That's all I can think of! | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:15 PM The_Colonel_Whatwhat 3 yrs |
Well on those odd, very odd, occasions when I have received a memo from someone I have immediately checked their profile and looked at their posts. If I like what I see they may get a reply. So my advice is to make sure she has filled out an interesting profile and posted well.
I came, I saw, I concurred | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:17 PM ALittleBizarre 4 yrs |
Some good points, i'm unsure about asking for a reply, everytime i get a memo that asks me for a reply i end up thinking "fuck you, don't tell me what to do", but then maybe thats the rebelious tomboy in me. Anyone else feel like this?
"Hey boy take a look at me, Let me dirty up your mind." --Garbage | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:26 PM goodghirl UK, 8 yrs  |
I like hi how you doing I was reading blah and I thought Blah short and sweet | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:30 PM River_Deep UK(M), 6 yrs |
Winner for me too. A sincere compliment goes a long way RD xx It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:38 PM Life_of_Brian 6 yrs |
Thanks for the help xx | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:40 PM Anarchtea UK(RM), 8 yrs |
I find I get better replies from something funny & sincere over the essays I wrote when I first joined. No-one likes having all that information thrust upon them. If there were two of you, which one would win? | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:42 PM goodghirl UK, 8 yrs |
random memo work for me ~ but I tend to randomly message boys | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:42 PM ALittleBizarre 4 yrs |
Thats okay, you know how to repay me
"Hey boy take a look at me, Let me dirty up your mind." --Garbage | |
| 10 Jul 09, 6:57 PM Max_Bedroom 4 yrs |
Yeah I agree completely. Some of the stuff I first sent out was so fucking earnest...
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