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| alexandraa |
There are no slaves vs subs, no bottom vs submissive no Dom vs top. There is just your relationship with your Dominant/Master/Mistress/Top/boyfriend/girlfriend call it what you will.
There are no labels just your personal intimate dynamic.
I was Colbeh's completely and utterly. Label that how you will. We had our labels between us that fulfilled us and his voice saying "slave" to me made me all but.... well you know..... Was yummy. But that was between us. I am not A slave. Some other dominant if they said, "oi slave" to me at the moment would get a nasty tongue lashing (stop that you dirty creatures you wouldn't enjoy it) and i'd set evil twin on them too.
You can define slave in many ways, some connotations of it are simply horrid, nasty, evil and saddening. Between Colbeh and i it was hugely fullfiling. Some folk would see us as sub and Dom and others as Master slave.
All i know is it worked for us. I have blogged recently about limits and trust so you who read my blogs know my trust was absolute and that i gave myself without reservation to him. I felt owned in a very positive way and utterly his and after 2 years it would not occur to me to do something without his knowledge and permission. I loved that, adored it just as I loved and adored him.
I may or may not find that again, I may or may not need it or want it.
To me its just about the dynamic you have with yor partner.
No versus, no competition, no better or worse just how it is, what works for you.
Have fun folk, push your limits, sub and Dom, slave and Master, go for it while you can, Colbeh and i pushed it far, we had an incredible 2 years, life is too short. Time passes too swiftly.
Edited Sun 1 Aug 04, 3:43 PM by alexandraa
