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| alexandraa |
Spent the weekend up North, visiting family then decended on evil twin for 6 packed solid hours of yak yak yak. Poor J. It went past in a flash, felt like 6 minutes. Well to us evil twins it did anyway hehee. Was fab to see her again... hey well come on i've only seen her 3 times this month and spoken to her ohhh for hours and hours and hours. Oh and then there's IM and emails. Sooooo we had a lot of catching up to do...... What do we talk about so much?? Not a chuffing clue but its good for the soul and we laugh a lot. What with that and a right good laugh with the evil man known as Colbeh the weekend was fab.
So fat, voluptuous, wobbly bits? Hmmmm I learnt something about 3 years ago. It really doesn't matter. Someone else has blogged on this. Its all about self esteem, self perception and self assurance. I know a Domme that is a voluptuous lady and there is just something about her, sexy, confident and sensuous, cant put my finger on why, its just there. I know too when I have positive days and feel sexy and confident and happy I attract far more attention from people than on my "ugly" days.
So what's the message? Everyday you wake up tell yourself you're damn gorgeous and sexy because you are. So there. And anyone that says otherwise is talking bollocks.
That said i did come close to meeting up with a guy that was into shibari and simply couldn't escape images of diamond shaped lumps of fat poking out all over the place. Maybe if the rope was intricate enough and the diamond shapes were teeny.... maybe that would be more of a "hold it all in" and ba boooommmm i'm Angeline Jolie, cept without the massive basoomers.
And what is all this bollocks about rope corsets?? How is it a corset? What the buggery is it holding in?? Its more about squashing stuff out. I think they should be called what they do and so henceforth rename rope corsets as - "wobbly meshers" and shibari shall be called "fat shaping".
Brought to you from the Northern Monkey known as andra who prefers to call a spade a diamond.
Edited Mon 31 May 04, 9:26 PM by alexandraa
