4 Jul 09, 4:56 PM astrid_the_spy UK(G), 7 yrs  |
lushvelvet wrote: - IC posts claiming that kinky relationships are “so much better” than non-kinky ones. And posts that use the term “vanilla” in sneering tones. Oh – and my own particular Room 101 - “BDSM relationships require so much more trust than vanilla ones”. Seriously – a shared interest in BDSM doesn't make a relationship any “better” than a shared interest in sailing/ historical re-enactment/ rock climbing. BDSM does not make you “special” – well not in the sense that's positive anyway

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I so 100% agree with the above! Drives me mental
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