Events without male dominants (95)

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Fri 3 Jul 09, 3:01 PM
Tanos
UK(M), 12 yrs
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Two (1 and 2) events recently have stressed that only female dominants are to be involved, and there are others out there. The OWK in particular has a no male dominants rule.
Is there something about male dominants being around that interferes with female dominance?
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Tanos
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3 Jul 09, 3:05 PM
switch_bitch
UK(G), 4 yrs
Personally i prefer a mix of male and female!!
Orrrr all males and me would be even better
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3 Jul 09, 3:11 PM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 23 mths

Tanos wrote:
Events without male dominants
Two (1 and 2) events recently have stressed that only female dominants are to be involved, and there are others out there. The OWK in particular has a no male dominants rule.
Is there something about male dominants being around that interferes with female dominance?
Regards,
Tanos

Maybe not something that interferes with female dominance as such but sometimes, it might be nice to be in a male dominant free zone for other reasons.
One I can think of is if the female Dominant wants her male sub to have fun without anyone dominant men around. Whilst this does not refer to all male Doms, some can make male subs feel as though they must be weak and pathetic to be submissive. This is not conducive any male sub being able to express his character fully and happily.
Just a thought.
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3 Jul 09, 3:21 PM
wonderer
UK, 3 yrs

Are both of these events specifically Femdom / malesub activity? I think the subhunt was.
I guess Female Dominants in a general BDSM event find themselves in a minority among females and a minority among dominants. Perhaps they quite like the idea of not being in a minority for some events.
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3 Jul 09, 3:23 PM
Lady_Lucan
UK(TD), 2 yrs
wonderer wrote:
Are both of these events specifically Femdom / malesub activity? I think the subhunt was.
I guess Female Dominants in a general BDSM event find themselves in a minority among females and a minority among dominants. Perhaps they quite like the idea of not being in a minority for some events.
Spot on.

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3 Jul 09, 3:34 PM
Tanos
UK(M), 12 yrs
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Ms_Valentine wrote:
One I can think of is if the female Dominant wants her male sub to have fun without anyone dominant men around. Whilst this does not refer to all male Doms, some can make male subs feel as though they must be weak and pathetic to be submissive. This is not conducive any male sub being able to express his character fully and happily.
Ah, so that would be it interfering with male submission?
(I have a vested interest in understanding how particular combinations of types of people rub each other up the wrong way at events )
Regards,
Tanos
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www.bridgewood.org.uk
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Edited 3 Jul 09, 3:35 PM by Tanos

3 Jul 09, 3:35 PM
Tanos
UK(M), 12 yrs
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wonderer wrote:
Are both of these events specifically Femdom / malesub activity? I think the subhunt was.
So far, they've been presented as F/f/m. Pedestal and (I think) OWK are too.
Regards,
Tanos
www.tanos.org.uk
www.bridgewood.org.uk
www.twitter.com/ukTanos

3 Jul 09, 3:43 PM
littlenic
UK, 3 yrs
At a tangent - does any event exist without male submissives? The only thing I can think of are all-female events, where obviously the male dominant is also not permitted.
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3 Jul 09, 3:45 PM
MissP
UK(EN), 6 yrs
Personally I don't think male dominance interferes with female dominance. Certainly not in my instance anyway.
I do prefer mixed events as a rule, but enjoy Pedestal etc. I'm glad we have both. But I do find events sans doms are less of a cattle market.
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3 Jul 09, 3:52 PM
Premo_1
UK(HA), 4 yrs
Yea I would agree with this.

Lady_Lucan wrote:

wonderer wrote:
Are both of these events specifically Femdom / malesub activity? I think the subhunt was.
I guess Female Dominants in a general BDSM event find themselves in a minority among females and a minority among dominants. Perhaps they quite like the idea of not being in a minority for some events.
Spot on.

3 Jul 09, 3:54 PM
Bubbles_2
UK(E), 4 yrs
A lot of male doms can be very disparaging to/about male subs. It doesn't bother me but i can see it causing a certain amount of discomfort for some people...
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