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How old is too old? (92)

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3 Jul 09, 3:50 PM
Butterscotch
UK(RM), 3 yrs
WOW what a woman, now that's someone I would definitely like to meet :)

Is waiting for the boy who will do anything to be her everything

3 Jul 09, 3:55 PM
daisyday
UK(M), 2 yrs
Plenty of people are (or just appear to be) physically fragile and are involved in BDSM - including the single most scary person with a whip that I know.

Everyone knows their own abilities and limits, what they like and what they don't, and it's down to everyone else to recognise and respect that autonomy and interact with them as equals - hell, maybe she's a masochist and is getting nearer to a hip replacement with each stroke, but if it's what 'does it' for her then it's honestly no concern of anybody else - except, of course, in the question of how one might best please such a lady.

I don't naughty.

3 Jul 09, 4:03 PM
BadWulf
UK(TA), 6 yrs

Well I attend martial arts events with folk in their 70's practising, (did so last week in fact) couple of teachers I know are in their 80's and they can still put me on the floor.

Will be well disappointed if I aint perving away till I shuffle off myself.

- John

My, what sharp teeth I have.

3 Jul 09, 4:08 PM
satrianiax
4 yrs
I regularly take long cycle training rides with a guy who, like me, does triathlon. The rides are around 60-80 miles. He regularly arrives back in better nick - in fact the only thing I can beat him at are the odd sprints.

He isn't into kink - he actually told me - but if he was, he would no doubt be better at it than I am from a fitness persepective. More power to him. I pray to all the gods I can think of that I am like him when I am his age.

He is 83 in a months time.

3 Jul 09, 5:20 PM
saraxx
UK, 7 yrs
satrianiax wrote:
....He is 83 in a months time.

Says it all really.

You can be a a lardy couch potato at 22, or you can be as fit as a fiddle. Same in your latter years.

'A woman, without her man, is nothing.
A woman: without her, man is nothing'

3 Jul 09, 5:57 PM
subspace_junkie
UK(M), 3 yrs

personally think its great! GO HER! what a wonderful way to retire with a strap ons and adoring subs around you. i bet it beats knitting!
3 Jul 09, 5:59 PM
ironmaster
UK(DE), 7 yrs
sky_j2000 wrote:
How old is too old?

Recently while out at a friends private party I met a very nice women of 72. We got chatting ,as you do, and she told me her husband is boring so she comes to BDSM partys to play and loves to do all sorts of sexaul things to boys and get pampered. (I won't go into details but one was using a strap on) I do admit she did not look her age at all and seemed to have a lot of life in her but felt that it was a little strange for someone her age to take part in something that sometimes requires a lot of energy and hard work. I was worried about her hurting herself. I'm not saying she should stop doing what she enjoys but maybe calm it down a little and just get the pampering side of it. At what age do you think you should 'calm down' if at all or is it just me?!

Just run along, there's a smart kid.

we are born in pain live in fear die alone

3 Jul 09, 6:04 PM
Iphis_me
UK(E), 4 yrs

subspace_junkie wrote:
personally think its great! GO HER! what a wonderful way to retire with a strap ons and adoring subs around you. i bet it beats knitting!

What's wrong with knitting? It's possible to knit and be kinky you know! As for the person mentioned - why the hell not? The best judge of what she should and shouldn't be doing is her! Good for her I say.

We live in a society that expects older people - and especially older women - not to be sexual beings. Bollocks to that, I hope I age as well as this woman has!

"That hurts......please don't stop!"

3 Jul 09, 6:05 PM
MissKimberley
NL, 8 yrs


sky_j2000 wrote:
Yes I did mean it in a nice way. I just worry she will hurt herself. Some of the things she was doing on the night scared me and it was a little strange seeing someone of that age doing that sort of thing. I know its upto her what she does, I only hope she doesn't break a hip of something! lol

I understand your concerns, but at the end of the day, if she did die doing this - what a way to go. I used to have a lovely old gent who was 78 as a client, he was an absolute darling and a real gentleman. His main love was being fisted and used as a slut. I did occasionally worry about whether his skin and bumhole would recover, but he always came back chirpy and happy. I only stopped seeing him because I moved away, I am quite sure he will be seeing some other lady until he passes away.

“During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell

3 Jul 09, 8:22 PM
Intemporelle
CA, 5 yrs

paradiddle wrote:
I am a 77 year old submissive TV and still active in the BDSM life. I am heavily into bondage and sensory deprivation. 2 days ago I spent around 3 hours in a leather sleep sack that was lined in PVC strapped up in an attic Dungeon by a Mistress friend. I v'e just come back from touring France for Three months in my Camper van. Joined for the last 10 days by a Tranny friend who dressed every day. I have a strong Libido and can perform better than most. I am sick of people who write off oldies. I am a professional Jazz drummer, I ride a mountain Bike and a 1000cc Motor bike, I sail a yacht. I am not ready for my walking stick for a long time.

You appear to be incredibly active and alive! You should be proud to state your age on your profile here.

I'm always inspired by people who love and embrace life fully as the number of years keep adding up to their credit.

Come, pluck up a good heart; speak the truth and shame the devil. (François Rabelais) Book V, Author's prologue

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